I hope this helps
crafty lady said:
Now I am really confused. If you think he can't afford to pay this judgement, you have no idea how much more he earns than me!!!! Your statement is correct that he does not want to pay anything. He amazingly could afford to give his girlfriend rent money each month, go out and buy himself new clothes, party and carry on with his buddies. Boo Hoo for him now while he saddled me with all the bills. I really only want what is fair. And I definately want to protect myself and my daughter. Paying all the bills myself is not doing that!!! I can't afford anymore attorney's fees or else I'd be talking to my divorce attorney right now. HELP ME PLEASE!!! What do I do? Don't call each other names, I've heard enough of that from my ex!
Although I am not an attorney and I don't know anything about California law, it seems to me that there should be something you could do.
I know that COURT ORDERS are enforceable in several ways for child support, but apparently your ex is paying CS?
Maybe COURT ORDERED SETTLEMENT PAYMENTS are enforceable in the same way.
For one, a motion for contempt for willfully refusing to obey court order to pay settlement. Then ex would have to prove to the court that he didn't have the ability to pay, which if what you say is true, he won't be able to do.
As for his threat to file bankruptcy:
At the time of filing, he will have to give name and address of creditor for each debt claimed, all the creditors are notified of bankruptcy and are given an opportunity to object to their debt being discharged.
If he tries to claim the settlement, you or at least the court will be notified and at that time you can file an objection with BK court.
Since it is very likely that he will list only the court's address, you need to keep a weekly or even daily eye on the court docket in your divorce case.
You can go to courthouse and look at file, or some areas have the dockets on-line. (I check my husband's on-line on a daily basis).
I hope this helps some, and I hope things work out for you.
Gracie