AstrongFATHER
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?PENNSYLVANIA
HELLO I AM A SINGLE FATHER LIVING IN PENNSYLVANIA. I GAINED FULL CUSTODY OF MY SON ONE YEAR AGO ON THE GROUNDS THAT I PROVED MY EX-WIFE WAS A DRUG ADDICT AND PROVING THERE WERE DRUGS IN MY SON'S BODY. AS I SAID I GAINED FULL (TOTAL) CUSTODY. DURING THE FINAL HEARING I , WITHOUT THINKING , LET THE MOTHER SEE HIM IN THE PRESENCE OF THE GRANDPARENTS.( ACTUAL ORDER STATES " THE FATHER SHALL HAVE PRIMARY PHYSICAL AND LEGAL CUSTODY OF THE CHILD. THE MOTHER SHALL HAVE SUPERVISED VISITS IN THE PRESENCE OF THE MATERNAL, GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDFATHER, WITH TIMES TO BE AGREED UPON BY THE FATHER AND GRANDPARENTS.) LIKE I SAID EARLIER I, WITHOUT THINKING AT THE TIME, GAVE THIS PRIVILEDGE TO THE GRANDPARENTS AND THE MOTHER FOR THE SAKE OF MY 5 YEAR OLD SON.
I ALSO LET HER GO TO HIS SPORTING EVENTS AND PRACTICES. A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO, AT ONE OF HIS PRACTICES, SHE STARTED TROUBLE WITH ME AND I CALLED THE POLICE ON HER SO THEY COULD ESCORT HER OFF THE PROPERTY. I TOLD THE POLICE THE SITUATION (BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THE COURT ORDER ON ME) AND THEY WANTED TO ASK THE GRANDFATHER ( HER FATHER) IF I HAD FULL CUSTODY AND IF I HAD THE RIGHT TO THROW HER OFF THE PROPERTY. HE SIDED WITH HIS DAUGHTER , OF COURSE, AND USED THAT LITTLE PARAGRAPH IN THE COURT ORDER,THAT I MENTIONED EARLIER, AGAINST ME. THAT PARAGRAPH, THAT I PUT IN THERE, WAS SUPPOSED TO MEAN WHEN HE GOES TO THE GRANDPARENTS HOUSE SHE IS ALLOWED TO SEE HIM IN THE PRESENCE OF THE GRANDPARENTS AND NOT IN A SITUATION WHEN WE ARE ALL AT ONE OF HIS EVENTS. WELL I TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS LIKE THE DEVIL QUOTING THE BIBLE AND THAT HE USED THAT AGAINST ME. NOW I FILED FOR A MODIFICATION ON THE COURT ORDER AND I WANT THAT WHOLE PARAGRAPH OUT OF THE COURT ORDER AND I DO NOT WANT THE GRANDPARENTS INVOLVED ANYMORE( I AM NOT TRYING TO BE SPITEFUL BUT THERE ARE OTHER REASONS THAT I CANNOT PROVE THAT HAPPENED AND NOW I AM FED UP WITH EVERYTHING).
MY QUESTIONS TO YOU IS CAN I GET THAT PARAGRAPH THROWN OUT OF THE ORDER SINCE I PUT THERE?
CAN I DENY THE GRANDPARENTS TO SEE HIM EVENTHOUGH THEY NEVER TOOK ME TO COURT FOR ANYTHING?
AND IF THE GRANDPARENTS TAKE ME COURT, SINCE I CANNOT REALLY AFFORD A LAWYER, WHAT CAN I USE IN MY DEFENSE TO FIGHT THE GRANDPARENTS IN COURT(E.G. OLD COURT CASES, FACTS, INFORMATION, ANYTHING POSSIBLE IN MY DEFENSE)?
I AM SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I COULD AND WILL APPRECIATE ANY ANSWERS OR HELP YOU COULD GIVE ME. THANKYOU
P.S. ALSO I HAVE A REALLY GOOD JOB, I HAVE A REAL NICE HOME, MY SON IS WELL EDUCATED FOR HIS AGE AND I NEVER BEEN IN TROUBLE. ALSO A SOCIAL WORKER RECOMMED TOTAL CUSTODY TO ME TO THE COURTS.
HELLO I AM A SINGLE FATHER LIVING IN PENNSYLVANIA. I GAINED FULL CUSTODY OF MY SON ONE YEAR AGO ON THE GROUNDS THAT I PROVED MY EX-WIFE WAS A DRUG ADDICT AND PROVING THERE WERE DRUGS IN MY SON'S BODY. AS I SAID I GAINED FULL (TOTAL) CUSTODY. DURING THE FINAL HEARING I , WITHOUT THINKING , LET THE MOTHER SEE HIM IN THE PRESENCE OF THE GRANDPARENTS.( ACTUAL ORDER STATES " THE FATHER SHALL HAVE PRIMARY PHYSICAL AND LEGAL CUSTODY OF THE CHILD. THE MOTHER SHALL HAVE SUPERVISED VISITS IN THE PRESENCE OF THE MATERNAL, GRANDMOTHER AND GRANDFATHER, WITH TIMES TO BE AGREED UPON BY THE FATHER AND GRANDPARENTS.) LIKE I SAID EARLIER I, WITHOUT THINKING AT THE TIME, GAVE THIS PRIVILEDGE TO THE GRANDPARENTS AND THE MOTHER FOR THE SAKE OF MY 5 YEAR OLD SON.
I ALSO LET HER GO TO HIS SPORTING EVENTS AND PRACTICES. A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO, AT ONE OF HIS PRACTICES, SHE STARTED TROUBLE WITH ME AND I CALLED THE POLICE ON HER SO THEY COULD ESCORT HER OFF THE PROPERTY. I TOLD THE POLICE THE SITUATION (BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE THE COURT ORDER ON ME) AND THEY WANTED TO ASK THE GRANDFATHER ( HER FATHER) IF I HAD FULL CUSTODY AND IF I HAD THE RIGHT TO THROW HER OFF THE PROPERTY. HE SIDED WITH HIS DAUGHTER , OF COURSE, AND USED THAT LITTLE PARAGRAPH IN THE COURT ORDER,THAT I MENTIONED EARLIER, AGAINST ME. THAT PARAGRAPH, THAT I PUT IN THERE, WAS SUPPOSED TO MEAN WHEN HE GOES TO THE GRANDPARENTS HOUSE SHE IS ALLOWED TO SEE HIM IN THE PRESENCE OF THE GRANDPARENTS AND NOT IN A SITUATION WHEN WE ARE ALL AT ONE OF HIS EVENTS. WELL I TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS LIKE THE DEVIL QUOTING THE BIBLE AND THAT HE USED THAT AGAINST ME. NOW I FILED FOR A MODIFICATION ON THE COURT ORDER AND I WANT THAT WHOLE PARAGRAPH OUT OF THE COURT ORDER AND I DO NOT WANT THE GRANDPARENTS INVOLVED ANYMORE( I AM NOT TRYING TO BE SPITEFUL BUT THERE ARE OTHER REASONS THAT I CANNOT PROVE THAT HAPPENED AND NOW I AM FED UP WITH EVERYTHING).
MY QUESTIONS TO YOU IS CAN I GET THAT PARAGRAPH THROWN OUT OF THE ORDER SINCE I PUT THERE?
CAN I DENY THE GRANDPARENTS TO SEE HIM EVENTHOUGH THEY NEVER TOOK ME TO COURT FOR ANYTHING?
AND IF THE GRANDPARENTS TAKE ME COURT, SINCE I CANNOT REALLY AFFORD A LAWYER, WHAT CAN I USE IN MY DEFENSE TO FIGHT THE GRANDPARENTS IN COURT(E.G. OLD COURT CASES, FACTS, INFORMATION, ANYTHING POSSIBLE IN MY DEFENSE)?
I AM SORRY THIS IS LONG BUT I COULD AND WILL APPRECIATE ANY ANSWERS OR HELP YOU COULD GIVE ME. THANKYOU
P.S. ALSO I HAVE A REALLY GOOD JOB, I HAVE A REAL NICE HOME, MY SON IS WELL EDUCATED FOR HIS AGE AND I NEVER BEEN IN TROUBLE. ALSO A SOCIAL WORKER RECOMMED TOTAL CUSTODY TO ME TO THE COURTS.
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