What is the name of your state? CT
I filed for the divorce in June 2000 after 10 years of marriage. 2 boys now 13,14.
Ex-wife MBA had worked all her life but when divorce became inevitable in Jan 2000, she then quit a $ 55,000 job (as Sr. Programmer Analust in a major Insurance co. in Hartford). During the trial said now wants to be a full time teacher and is going to school for certification.
We both went for the custody of the kids. Divorce got final in May 2002. Joint custody, she the main custodian.
Judge highly partial. She awarded her the house (and $ 100,000 equity).
I got the joint Credit cards $ 21,000
She kept her 401K ($ 75,000), I kept mine ($ 23,000).
Child S. $ 319/week
Alimony (terminates in Dec 2005)was $ 330/week from May 2002 till Oct 2003 and then was to go down to $ 150/week till the non-modifiable end date.
In Oct 03, she went to court again saying that she was not accepted in the teaching program and thus needed extension. The same judge increased the alimony from $ 150 to 264/week, without any further reduction date.
My expenses have gone up. My car (178000 miles) finally died. Bought a new car ($ 600/month). Children Medical has gone up. Their clothing and sports which I pay ( and want to continue to pay) has gone up. I don't have the money to hire atty. but this exploitation ( and the financial hardhsip) is too much. I want to file a motion myself, and ask , as to how an able bodied capable and highly educated person is not being held accountable and is allowed to live like a parasite. Though it is only another year, but should I continue to let my self exploited?
She says she would be done with the ceritifcation close to the alimony end time. I did offer that she get a full time job during the day and go to school in the night, while I take care of kids home work and dinner etc. and then can drop to her when she comes back. We all live in the same town. But she refused the offer.
What are my options, for the Alimony part only.
Welcome any advice/thoughts.
I filed for the divorce in June 2000 after 10 years of marriage. 2 boys now 13,14.
Ex-wife MBA had worked all her life but when divorce became inevitable in Jan 2000, she then quit a $ 55,000 job (as Sr. Programmer Analust in a major Insurance co. in Hartford). During the trial said now wants to be a full time teacher and is going to school for certification.
We both went for the custody of the kids. Divorce got final in May 2002. Joint custody, she the main custodian.
Judge highly partial. She awarded her the house (and $ 100,000 equity).
I got the joint Credit cards $ 21,000
She kept her 401K ($ 75,000), I kept mine ($ 23,000).
Child S. $ 319/week
Alimony (terminates in Dec 2005)was $ 330/week from May 2002 till Oct 2003 and then was to go down to $ 150/week till the non-modifiable end date.
In Oct 03, she went to court again saying that she was not accepted in the teaching program and thus needed extension. The same judge increased the alimony from $ 150 to 264/week, without any further reduction date.
My expenses have gone up. My car (178000 miles) finally died. Bought a new car ($ 600/month). Children Medical has gone up. Their clothing and sports which I pay ( and want to continue to pay) has gone up. I don't have the money to hire atty. but this exploitation ( and the financial hardhsip) is too much. I want to file a motion myself, and ask , as to how an able bodied capable and highly educated person is not being held accountable and is allowed to live like a parasite. Though it is only another year, but should I continue to let my self exploited?
She says she would be done with the ceritifcation close to the alimony end time. I did offer that she get a full time job during the day and go to school in the night, while I take care of kids home work and dinner etc. and then can drop to her when she comes back. We all live in the same town. But she refused the offer.
What are my options, for the Alimony part only.
Welcome any advice/thoughts.
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