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I could need some advice:
I got married in the US in July 2002, I am a German Citizen, my husband is an American Citizen. So we are married 2 1/2 years at the moment. But 1/2 year after our marriage, he changed totally.It all started with him being layed off, so I hoped when he finds employment again, things would get better but it didn.t. he came always home late, spent time only doing his hobby etc etc... I tried my best, I accepted it in the hope some day things will clear up, if I try hard. Everything looked fine. I started going with him to his club etc but it didn't help, at home I got always yelled at for every little thing and I felt totally alone as he still came home only at midnight. I got my conditional resident card summer 2003, Around April I have to remove my conditional status from my green card.
But I don't know if I want to be married to him anymore. At the moment it feels unbearable. Friends say I should just go through the process and see afterwards. But by law what is the right thing to do if I want a separation/divorce.
He has his hobby, he says he loves me and I believe him, but I feel like I am not really important in his life and feel very alone. Honestly I don't know what is the right thing with the INS.
How should I proceed so that I can keep the greencard. I came over here in good faith to make it a good marriage - although we have an age difference of 30 years. I was thinking much about it as my boyfriends in Europe were always ~ 20 years older than me and before we decided to marry we didn't talk about his age.
Every advice is appreciated,
Teresa
I could need some advice:
I got married in the US in July 2002, I am a German Citizen, my husband is an American Citizen. So we are married 2 1/2 years at the moment. But 1/2 year after our marriage, he changed totally.It all started with him being layed off, so I hoped when he finds employment again, things would get better but it didn.t. he came always home late, spent time only doing his hobby etc etc... I tried my best, I accepted it in the hope some day things will clear up, if I try hard. Everything looked fine. I started going with him to his club etc but it didn't help, at home I got always yelled at for every little thing and I felt totally alone as he still came home only at midnight. I got my conditional resident card summer 2003, Around April I have to remove my conditional status from my green card.
But I don't know if I want to be married to him anymore. At the moment it feels unbearable. Friends say I should just go through the process and see afterwards. But by law what is the right thing to do if I want a separation/divorce.
He has his hobby, he says he loves me and I believe him, but I feel like I am not really important in his life and feel very alone. Honestly I don't know what is the right thing with the INS.
How should I proceed so that I can keep the greencard. I came over here in good faith to make it a good marriage - although we have an age difference of 30 years. I was thinking much about it as my boyfriends in Europe were always ~ 20 years older than me and before we decided to marry we didn't talk about his age.
Every advice is appreciated,
Teresa