I live in the state of Illinois. My ex-boyfriend and I are expecting twins here in a few months. In the past I have had a miscarriage and many problems with my ex. We have reconciled our differences, but are not intending on getting back together, just being good parents. All is good with us, but his mother is, the twin's grandmother, is crazy. In the past, she thinks that I lied about being pregnant to get her son back, which her son and I both know not to be true. So now, she thinks that I am lying again, which both my ex and I know that I am pregnant. We are both adults, but his mother says that she is going to court to make the court order me to have a pregnancy test at my cost. I think this is rediculous. We have shown her proof, and we are even having a paternity test done now, to please her. She has put me through enough legal hell, does she have any right to do this? Like I said, both her son and I are adults. I would have no problem doing this, but it is not her business at all. Please help me. Is this a grandparent right? Her son and I both know that babies are his, but are not wanting the kids to go through the court system. Please help me with this mess soon... 