What is the name of your state?NY- I WILL BE OFF WORK 6-8 WEEKS AFTER DELIVERING MY SECOND BABY, AND IF I CHOOSE NOT TO GO BACK TO WORK THEN CAN MY EMPLOYER TAKE AWAY MY DISABILTY PAYMENTS DURING THE 6-8 WEEKS I AM HOME ESPECIALLY IF THEY KNOW AHEAD OF TIME THAT I MAY NOT RETURN TO WORK? WGAT COULD BE THE BEST WAY TO GO ABOUT HANDLING THIS?