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I get blood work and test every time I go to the gyn. Something my dr suggests just to be safe. This last time I called the office to get my HIV test results and the nurse told me "everything came back negative" I said oh "good, I hate waiting for those results” she responded in a demeaning tone "well maybe you should change your lifestyle” she took me so off guard my instant reaction was to defend the, in my opinion, whore comment. So I in turn responded "my husband cheated on me and I had to deal w/ alot and since- I get the tests all the time. AND I have been w/ the same person for over a year since that happened” she responded "well I guess that’s circumstances that you can’t control"
That was the end of the conversation. The way she made me feel is unbelievable.--I was so upset I had to stop the training class I was in. Then I called the office back told them how upset I was and how dirty she made me feel. I explained that I am not comfortable even going there anymore. This happened 2-9-05. I have been going there 12 years! The dr called me back and left a message on 2-10-05 and said he was so sorry that she was going to have disciplinary action against her and so forth. He then told me that she has worked there for 7 years or something--I don’t care. He said he would call me back 2-11-05 to speak to me in person. He never called-I called 2-14-05. We discussed how awful it was and how I know the whole office is talking about it-I’m not comfortable. He said the situation is being talked about-- but not YOU, he said we have to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
For all she knew I was raped 2 weeks ago I told him. He apologized for her and said she didn’t know my situation but she doesn’t need to know my situation and should of never invaded my privacy.
I could be a prostitute but it is none of her business and not her place to make me feel as so when that’s not the case. He told me they haven’t talked to her yet b/c they weren’t sure how to approach the situation or how far they were going to take the disciplinary action. He told me from now on I could talk directly to him instead of anyone else.
The fact that I had to tell her that my husband cheated on me, I had to relive that not only to her but everyone in my training class.
Is there anything I can do? Can I sue them. THIS IS JUST NOT RIGHT
I get blood work and test every time I go to the gyn. Something my dr suggests just to be safe. This last time I called the office to get my HIV test results and the nurse told me "everything came back negative" I said oh "good, I hate waiting for those results” she responded in a demeaning tone "well maybe you should change your lifestyle” she took me so off guard my instant reaction was to defend the, in my opinion, whore comment. So I in turn responded "my husband cheated on me and I had to deal w/ alot and since- I get the tests all the time. AND I have been w/ the same person for over a year since that happened” she responded "well I guess that’s circumstances that you can’t control"
That was the end of the conversation. The way she made me feel is unbelievable.--I was so upset I had to stop the training class I was in. Then I called the office back told them how upset I was and how dirty she made me feel. I explained that I am not comfortable even going there anymore. This happened 2-9-05. I have been going there 12 years! The dr called me back and left a message on 2-10-05 and said he was so sorry that she was going to have disciplinary action against her and so forth. He then told me that she has worked there for 7 years or something--I don’t care. He said he would call me back 2-11-05 to speak to me in person. He never called-I called 2-14-05. We discussed how awful it was and how I know the whole office is talking about it-I’m not comfortable. He said the situation is being talked about-- but not YOU, he said we have to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
For all she knew I was raped 2 weeks ago I told him. He apologized for her and said she didn’t know my situation but she doesn’t need to know my situation and should of never invaded my privacy.
I could be a prostitute but it is none of her business and not her place to make me feel as so when that’s not the case. He told me they haven’t talked to her yet b/c they weren’t sure how to approach the situation or how far they were going to take the disciplinary action. He told me from now on I could talk directly to him instead of anyone else.
The fact that I had to tell her that my husband cheated on me, I had to relive that not only to her but everyone in my training class.
Is there anything I can do? Can I sue them. THIS IS JUST NOT RIGHT
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