Theresalee
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What is the name of your state? CA....
This is for a friend who does not want this on his computer for different reasons...
Here is what I know. He wants a divorce but wants to make sure he does the right thing by taking care of his wife now, legally and morally. She is much older then him and is about the age to recieve social security so she will have that income. They have been married close to 20 years and to my knowledge he has paid for everything during the whole marriage. They do Not own any property except maybe vehicles (at least one for him to get to work anyway)he is in his 40's. He wants to make sure he can afford to move out and still help her but doesn't know what he will be required to pay? I know you guys can't give a figure per say but is there something we could get a guess by? He grosses about $80.000.00 a year but brings in net aprox.$60 of that. I know the judge can order what he deams appropriate but is there any kind of set percentage of alimony a man gives a woman after 20 years of marriage? I hear that the debts are halfed so is his income halfed as well except for the S.S she will receive? I do know that he has chronic medical issues and no Insurance so I assume if they get divorced and she gets Social Security then she will probably get medical or medicaide what ever S.S gives.
How can this alimony be figured out? Or is there a way to figure it out to almost the amount.. Again I know the judge can do what he feels is best and change anything but he was just looking for an estimate cause even before its ordered he will help her. They just don't love each other any more and need to end this, so it's my opinion she probably wants this divorce as well...
also I wanted to ask why some posts never get answered? is it b/c it would be to complicated to answer? or no way to really answer?
I hope you guys can tell me something as this guy is a decent guy and I don't think his wife is all that nice either. But of course I don't live in their home either.. Please any help so this guy can be happy and I'm sure the wife too by what I hear.. Thanks
This is for a friend who does not want this on his computer for different reasons...
Here is what I know. He wants a divorce but wants to make sure he does the right thing by taking care of his wife now, legally and morally. She is much older then him and is about the age to recieve social security so she will have that income. They have been married close to 20 years and to my knowledge he has paid for everything during the whole marriage. They do Not own any property except maybe vehicles (at least one for him to get to work anyway)he is in his 40's. He wants to make sure he can afford to move out and still help her but doesn't know what he will be required to pay? I know you guys can't give a figure per say but is there something we could get a guess by? He grosses about $80.000.00 a year but brings in net aprox.$60 of that. I know the judge can order what he deams appropriate but is there any kind of set percentage of alimony a man gives a woman after 20 years of marriage? I hear that the debts are halfed so is his income halfed as well except for the S.S she will receive? I do know that he has chronic medical issues and no Insurance so I assume if they get divorced and she gets Social Security then she will probably get medical or medicaide what ever S.S gives.
How can this alimony be figured out? Or is there a way to figure it out to almost the amount.. Again I know the judge can do what he feels is best and change anything but he was just looking for an estimate cause even before its ordered he will help her. They just don't love each other any more and need to end this, so it's my opinion she probably wants this divorce as well...
also I wanted to ask why some posts never get answered? is it b/c it would be to complicated to answer? or no way to really answer?
I hope you guys can tell me something as this guy is a decent guy and I don't think his wife is all that nice either. But of course I don't live in their home either.. Please any help so this guy can be happy and I'm sure the wife too by what I hear.. Thanks
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