What is the name of your state? Wisconsin- Husband of 25 yrs wants a divorce. He is 47 and I am 52. (Has a 35 yr old girlfriend). I just found out a week ago and am devistated. He did this same thing 10 yrs ago but we stayed together because I got very sick and almost died because of the stress. I couldnt deal with it. But this time its different. I am dealing with it. (I hope ). We know we have to split 50/50. But he is not being fair about his 50. He makes over $12,000 more than I do. I cannot afford to buy another house nor even rent. We have no minor children. He has turned off the satellite, and now has purchased a new cell phone for himself. Can he do that? He refuses to leave the home because he says he cant afford a house and rent payment. He goes out for dinner almost every night while I stay home. He plans on getting a lawyer but I cannot afford one . Am I going to get nothing out of this ? What are my rights? What am I entitled to? Please help me!!