What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? My state is Oregon
My Ex is in California (We divorced in Calif)
I have been divorced for 6 years. In that time I have received alimony and am due to continue until 2009. My ex has stated that he is going to end the alimony and take me to court. It is a Goliath and David situation. His father is very rich and powerful and i wouldn't stand a chance in court. I cannot afford an attorney and they know that. I am living with our daughter and she and I take care of all our own bills and rent and the like. She is hanging on by thread since her father has turned. He has found a woman with twin 11 year old girls and is desparate to marry to "move on" with his life. So cutting us off is his solution. I was not allowed to work for our 20 year marriage, and the abuse was at times unbearable. I have no resume and have only been able to find minimal jobs. My ex has said that if he finds out I am working ... he will cut off the alimony saying I am self supporting. I cannot hide from this man ... he is in my computer and my bank accounts. He works real estate and has bragged that he can look up anyone's business without it showing on the person's credit report. His father hands him $50,000.00 a year and he has sold many homes, yet now cries poor mouth. His father has found a way to hide his payout. I am out of stones. Any advice? Sam
My Ex is in California (We divorced in Calif)
I have been divorced for 6 years. In that time I have received alimony and am due to continue until 2009. My ex has stated that he is going to end the alimony and take me to court. It is a Goliath and David situation. His father is very rich and powerful and i wouldn't stand a chance in court. I cannot afford an attorney and they know that. I am living with our daughter and she and I take care of all our own bills and rent and the like. She is hanging on by thread since her father has turned. He has found a woman with twin 11 year old girls and is desparate to marry to "move on" with his life. So cutting us off is his solution. I was not allowed to work for our 20 year marriage, and the abuse was at times unbearable. I have no resume and have only been able to find minimal jobs. My ex has said that if he finds out I am working ... he will cut off the alimony saying I am self supporting. I cannot hide from this man ... he is in my computer and my bank accounts. He works real estate and has bragged that he can look up anyone's business without it showing on the person's credit report. His father hands him $50,000.00 a year and he has sold many homes, yet now cries poor mouth. His father has found a way to hide his payout. I am out of stones. Any advice? Sam