ILSAofSIBERIA
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? California
I have a situation. A couple of years ago my now boyfriend was dating this girl. She was a not very nice person and was very hateful and revengeful. She was trying to use him for money. He was at a low point and continued to see her for a few weeks. The second date she was trying to get his credit card with no avail. He broke it off after a couple of weeks and after he told her that they were done and quickly followed was she said she was pregnant. He found out soon after hiring a private investigator she was a prostitute. She said at first it wasn't his and then she said it was and needed money for an abortion. He took her to the clinic and gave her the money gladly because he wanted no part of this woman. Well she didn't have it. She took some of the money and took a trip to Seatle to see another guy. She was sending hateful emails threatning his life. She had the child and he tried to make her give it up for adoption. She didn't. He had the DNA test which proved he was the father. He tried everthing in his power not to be a father. He pays child support ever month and never missies a payment. She kept harrassing him and then eventually stopped. Recently for about 3 weeks calling him at work and harrassing him again. Emailed him and told him that she was going to raise child support if he didn't take the girl for one weekend a month. He didn't want to do that because it was her way to get even more revenge on him. She claimed that he broke her heart and that she couldn't get in a solid relationship since the birth of her child. Things are all his fault that her life is in shambles etc.. She did get child support raised to an ungodly amount making it hard for him to make ends meet. Not to mention she has been living off of welfare and is still more than likely prostituting. It seems this is her way to con him for more money. She had the option to abort and adoption and he had no say in what he could do. She chose to the parent and he didn't. What can he do in lowering child support or more preferably getting parental ties severd? He still does not want to be the father and like I said he hasn't been a dead beat and pays. I don't think it is fair for him to be stuck in this prediciment. Is there just nothing he could do at all?
I have a situation. A couple of years ago my now boyfriend was dating this girl. She was a not very nice person and was very hateful and revengeful. She was trying to use him for money. He was at a low point and continued to see her for a few weeks. The second date she was trying to get his credit card with no avail. He broke it off after a couple of weeks and after he told her that they were done and quickly followed was she said she was pregnant. He found out soon after hiring a private investigator she was a prostitute. She said at first it wasn't his and then she said it was and needed money for an abortion. He took her to the clinic and gave her the money gladly because he wanted no part of this woman. Well she didn't have it. She took some of the money and took a trip to Seatle to see another guy. She was sending hateful emails threatning his life. She had the child and he tried to make her give it up for adoption. She didn't. He had the DNA test which proved he was the father. He tried everthing in his power not to be a father. He pays child support ever month and never missies a payment. She kept harrassing him and then eventually stopped. Recently for about 3 weeks calling him at work and harrassing him again. Emailed him and told him that she was going to raise child support if he didn't take the girl for one weekend a month. He didn't want to do that because it was her way to get even more revenge on him. She claimed that he broke her heart and that she couldn't get in a solid relationship since the birth of her child. Things are all his fault that her life is in shambles etc.. She did get child support raised to an ungodly amount making it hard for him to make ends meet. Not to mention she has been living off of welfare and is still more than likely prostituting. It seems this is her way to con him for more money. She had the option to abort and adoption and he had no say in what he could do. She chose to the parent and he didn't. What can he do in lowering child support or more preferably getting parental ties severd? He still does not want to be the father and like I said he hasn't been a dead beat and pays. I don't think it is fair for him to be stuck in this prediciment. Is there just nothing he could do at all?