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Thanks so much for your replies! To answer your questions ...
My DH asked his other child (when he was attending college) if he'd give him access to his records. His son said "sure" ... we sent him an authorization letter to send to the school ... a few days later, the ex typed a letter (and made son sign) stating that he now didn't feel comfortable signing the letter, etc. So, we had to send support on a good faith assumption that he was going full-time and doing well.
We later found out that he was failing ALL of his classes ... no WONDER the ex didn't want us to have direct access to the son's grades ... he was failing and never said anything to us as she continued to endorse the checks we sent.
Sooo ... now, we feel it's important to make sure that we see proof that the conditions of the support order are being met ... I guess I fall back on my question ... how can my DH be in contempt when the conditions of college child support may not be met? Ugh ... it's a shame that it has to be such a game to her.
Do you think a judge would understand our point of view in light of what the ex has pulled over on us before?
Thanks so much for your replies! To answer your questions ...
My DH asked his other child (when he was attending college) if he'd give him access to his records. His son said "sure" ... we sent him an authorization letter to send to the school ... a few days later, the ex typed a letter (and made son sign) stating that he now didn't feel comfortable signing the letter, etc. So, we had to send support on a good faith assumption that he was going full-time and doing well.
We later found out that he was failing ALL of his classes ... no WONDER the ex didn't want us to have direct access to the son's grades ... he was failing and never said anything to us as she continued to endorse the checks we sent.
Sooo ... now, we feel it's important to make sure that we see proof that the conditions of the support order are being met ... I guess I fall back on my question ... how can my DH be in contempt when the conditions of college child support may not be met? Ugh ... it's a shame that it has to be such a game to her.
Do you think a judge would understand our point of view in light of what the ex has pulled over on us before?