sonjarohini
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?delaware
I am a woman in a quandry. We have taken child support to a ridiculous extreme.
How is it that two adults can have a consensual relationship over a three-date fling, the woman gets pregnant, CHOOSES to keep the child and 3 years later contacts a man she hasn't seen since for child support. She chose to keep her child, why is he ultimately responsible to care for it? He certainly can't order her to terminate the pregnancy or give the child up for adoption. She is as responsible forf her pregnancy as he is - more so, since she is the only one with any biological rights to speak of.
Also, this a woman with her third child from different 'fathers', with no education and no job of her own, gets breast implants and can afford $1400.00 per month in rent (when he is struggling to work and get an education and pay child support). Why must the man pay child support that must certainly be going towards her lavish lifestyle and her unique medical expenses?
Can the person paying for child support put the money into some sort of a trust fund or secured resource that will ensure that the monies meant for that child are spent on him and not the mother's 'profile'? Can the payor directly spend the money on the child for his clothes, food, school supplies etc on a monthly basis instead of paying it directly to the woman?
I am a woman in a quandry. We have taken child support to a ridiculous extreme.
How is it that two adults can have a consensual relationship over a three-date fling, the woman gets pregnant, CHOOSES to keep the child and 3 years later contacts a man she hasn't seen since for child support. She chose to keep her child, why is he ultimately responsible to care for it? He certainly can't order her to terminate the pregnancy or give the child up for adoption. She is as responsible forf her pregnancy as he is - more so, since she is the only one with any biological rights to speak of.
Also, this a woman with her third child from different 'fathers', with no education and no job of her own, gets breast implants and can afford $1400.00 per month in rent (when he is struggling to work and get an education and pay child support). Why must the man pay child support that must certainly be going towards her lavish lifestyle and her unique medical expenses?
Can the person paying for child support put the money into some sort of a trust fund or secured resource that will ensure that the monies meant for that child are spent on him and not the mother's 'profile'? Can the payor directly spend the money on the child for his clothes, food, school supplies etc on a monthly basis instead of paying it directly to the woman?