ShellShock
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?VA
I have a 2 year old. His mother and I were never married. As you can see it didn't work out, blah blah blah. We are in the process of going to court. I have just found out what I will probably be asked to pay. Right now I am just shell-shocked at the number I am looking at. In no way have I ever paid that kind of money when we were together. I don't know about the rest of you, but I was raised by a single mom who new how to make 50 bucks last. I was never in contact with my father as he was a A-hole. It seems that I will be going to jail because of the fact that, no its not that I will not pay the child support, its the fact that I cant. She makes almost double then I. I have tried to get as much visitation rights as possible. Well being a male, you will get bare minimal, one day out of the week and one weekend. I cant understand how a 300 dollar increase just suddenly is needed. I would love to receive a bill on what my so called 600 dollar child support is really going to. Two of my friends have been hit with something similar, one is in and out of jail and as been for 4 years. He just cant keep up with the demand, that and the mother has increased it to a total of 850 dollars for one child. The other is working three jobs just to pay it. My friend with the three jobs had to sell his car, sell his townhouse, move in with roommates (which is not very nice when having a child come over) and still almost never makes the deadline on time. We are all good guys, well in my eyes we are, we are the breed that grew up with out fathers but we do NOT want that to happen with our kids. It seems no matter how hard we try, its going to happen. The worst part about his hole thing, when dad is in and out of jail because of this, my son will think he is to blame.
Regards,
Jail house dad
I have a 2 year old. His mother and I were never married. As you can see it didn't work out, blah blah blah. We are in the process of going to court. I have just found out what I will probably be asked to pay. Right now I am just shell-shocked at the number I am looking at. In no way have I ever paid that kind of money when we were together. I don't know about the rest of you, but I was raised by a single mom who new how to make 50 bucks last. I was never in contact with my father as he was a A-hole. It seems that I will be going to jail because of the fact that, no its not that I will not pay the child support, its the fact that I cant. She makes almost double then I. I have tried to get as much visitation rights as possible. Well being a male, you will get bare minimal, one day out of the week and one weekend. I cant understand how a 300 dollar increase just suddenly is needed. I would love to receive a bill on what my so called 600 dollar child support is really going to. Two of my friends have been hit with something similar, one is in and out of jail and as been for 4 years. He just cant keep up with the demand, that and the mother has increased it to a total of 850 dollars for one child. The other is working three jobs just to pay it. My friend with the three jobs had to sell his car, sell his townhouse, move in with roommates (which is not very nice when having a child come over) and still almost never makes the deadline on time. We are all good guys, well in my eyes we are, we are the breed that grew up with out fathers but we do NOT want that to happen with our kids. It seems no matter how hard we try, its going to happen. The worst part about his hole thing, when dad is in and out of jail because of this, my son will think he is to blame.
Regards,
Jail house dad