What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?VA. I have been married for 10 years. We have a very healthy relationship. Thank God! My husband was served papers recently for the paternity of a 13 year old child. He was unaware of this and we are not sure what to do. We have a daughter of our own and we have no idea what our rights are. The other woman has recently had another child and filed for state help. So, now she is coming after us after all these years.