Sohc00civic
Junior Member
The state I live in is Washington..... (great state for child support...... not!)
Anywho I have a child who is now 7 yrs old and I havent seen for 4 years. Mother lives 10 miles from my house and its pretty much a long drawn out story but basically Ive paid support since she left (never married). Now I pay the support but cant get any help from anywhere what to do to get the visitation of my child. Talking to the ex about it is totally out of the question, will create too much drama and will likely end up in jail time for me according to the domestic dispute laws in this great state. No paterinty was ever done just paper work comming in the mail stating "you pay this" and after some time the state thought it was easyer "transaction" for them to just deduct from my wages. Any "real" info on this would greatly help. Also tried to go to the county facilitators but no real action there and getting a lawyer is too damn expensive factoring in the child support payments.
Anywho I have a child who is now 7 yrs old and I havent seen for 4 years. Mother lives 10 miles from my house and its pretty much a long drawn out story but basically Ive paid support since she left (never married). Now I pay the support but cant get any help from anywhere what to do to get the visitation of my child. Talking to the ex about it is totally out of the question, will create too much drama and will likely end up in jail time for me according to the domestic dispute laws in this great state. No paterinty was ever done just paper work comming in the mail stating "you pay this" and after some time the state thought it was easyer "transaction" for them to just deduct from my wages. Any "real" info on this would greatly help. Also tried to go to the county facilitators but no real action there and getting a lawyer is too damn expensive factoring in the child support payments.