grrrrrrrrr you people are so rude. Did you ever think for a moment knowing that this is child support law forum that some people are still looking for comfort. Give me a break, we are all humans and all have feelings. Sh*t if that wasnt that case we could be like the animals and not pay support.... "Oh what a wonderful thought, all those fat lazy moms at home would then realize collecting children for money would not be worth it" Anyways reading some of the threads a lot of these people are not only looking for advice but some place to vent or looking for someone in a similiar situation. So drop the damn attitude and start treating people like the way you would want to be treated. How do you know that this woman's husband ex is not some adulterous, abusive a*s. Should he have stayed just not to pay support? 600.00 a month is way too much. All judges that order this should be shot