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My husband (of 9 years-happily) & I are infertile (well, I am). We have a friend who is pregnant by my husband, we have no surrogate agreement in place as we did not complete this process in a hospital in the US. We are certain he is the father and she doe not want the child (she is having him for us only). She wants to terminate her parental rights the day she gives birth. If she terminates her parental rights, signing over full custody to my husband, since I am his spouse, does that automatically afford me some form of guardianship? Will I have to do a step parent adoption to attain legal rights to our child? We (biomom, my husband and I) are all in full agreement. There will be no parentage dispute nor will there be any difficulties in the process as we already premeditated this outcome at the time of conception as a group. I have been told it is all simply a paperwork process and should not take much time. Please advise what steps we need to take and is retaining a lawyer neccessary, if so, at what cost? Please help, our son will be here in just a couple of weeks...
Also, I will be taking the paid family medical leave and my work requries proof, what do I show them?
ANYONE with any tips, advice, similar instances, anything, please respond. I am running out of time.
My husband (of 9 years-happily) & I are infertile (well, I am). We have a friend who is pregnant by my husband, we have no surrogate agreement in place as we did not complete this process in a hospital in the US. We are certain he is the father and she doe not want the child (she is having him for us only). She wants to terminate her parental rights the day she gives birth. If she terminates her parental rights, signing over full custody to my husband, since I am his spouse, does that automatically afford me some form of guardianship? Will I have to do a step parent adoption to attain legal rights to our child? We (biomom, my husband and I) are all in full agreement. There will be no parentage dispute nor will there be any difficulties in the process as we already premeditated this outcome at the time of conception as a group. I have been told it is all simply a paperwork process and should not take much time. Please advise what steps we need to take and is retaining a lawyer neccessary, if so, at what cost? Please help, our son will be here in just a couple of weeks...
Also, I will be taking the paid family medical leave and my work requries proof, what do I show them?
ANYONE with any tips, advice, similar instances, anything, please respond. I am running out of time.
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