Georgia, 30 years old and confused...
I have been married for 6 years (1 year seperated) and am seeking divorce. I make approx 70k and my wife around 38k. I proposed that my wife take our home, her car, and all furnishings free and clear. I would then walk away with no equity and pay off all remaining debt (credit card, autos) which is total 9k. She resists this offer due to the fact that she is seeking the home and alimony in the amount of 1700.00 a month for 5 years. The arguement being that because she leaves my IRA alone that is settlement for lack of equity owed.
My question is am I a jerk or does it seem crazy that she claims not to be able to afford the associated expenses of living in this home and therefore I must subsidize this lifestyle? Is this equitable division?
**forgot to mention there are no children in this marriage.
I have been married for 6 years (1 year seperated) and am seeking divorce. I make approx 70k and my wife around 38k. I proposed that my wife take our home, her car, and all furnishings free and clear. I would then walk away with no equity and pay off all remaining debt (credit card, autos) which is total 9k. She resists this offer due to the fact that she is seeking the home and alimony in the amount of 1700.00 a month for 5 years. The arguement being that because she leaves my IRA alone that is settlement for lack of equity owed.
My question is am I a jerk or does it seem crazy that she claims not to be able to afford the associated expenses of living in this home and therefore I must subsidize this lifestyle? Is this equitable division?
**forgot to mention there are no children in this marriage.
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