busygirl1274
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?pa
please help my friend to realize she is being unreasonable. my friend and i were going to start a business together, i explained to her in every way possible how we would work the finances. she thought she was getting screwed and all of her family told her i was screwing her and i thought i was better than her, which i do not. we were opening a massage shop and we were also offering other services which i was showing her how to perform on customers so she would be able to increase her income with a commision on her services. two days before we were ready to open she decided she did not want to go into business with me. she called me names, she said she hated me, she said it would be a cold day in hell before she spoke to me again..i mean she said some pretty mean things. i paid her for half of the items we bought together because she wanted a cashiers check i could only get half of the stuff because the bank was closed and i only had enough cash on hand to get half. she went to the bank took her name off the account and withdrew the cash she had put in it, she went to the township to take her name off the permit app. and she took her name off the phone bill. well the next day she decides that she wants to do the business again after all this..in the meantime i was scrambling and trying to come up with the money to do this alone. my mom came to my rescue and lent me money to get started. so when she told me she was in again..i told her i would need to think about it, i told her i really wanted to do this with her, but now i couldnt befcause i had to much debt with my mom. she didnt understand this and blamed my mother instead of herself for deciding she didnt want to do this in the first place and said nasty things about me and my mother again. call me crazy but i understand she was hurt and mad, but she needs to understand i needed to move on. i almost feel like not doing this at all because a job is easy to come by friends are not, but i have to ask myself how much of a friend is she if she is acting like this? also i told her i would still like her to be a part of this with me and work there doing her services, selling the jewlery she makes and doing th front desk if she wanted. i need to hire someone anyway and i would like to have her there. please help us..
please help my friend to realize she is being unreasonable. my friend and i were going to start a business together, i explained to her in every way possible how we would work the finances. she thought she was getting screwed and all of her family told her i was screwing her and i thought i was better than her, which i do not. we were opening a massage shop and we were also offering other services which i was showing her how to perform on customers so she would be able to increase her income with a commision on her services. two days before we were ready to open she decided she did not want to go into business with me. she called me names, she said she hated me, she said it would be a cold day in hell before she spoke to me again..i mean she said some pretty mean things. i paid her for half of the items we bought together because she wanted a cashiers check i could only get half of the stuff because the bank was closed and i only had enough cash on hand to get half. she went to the bank took her name off the account and withdrew the cash she had put in it, she went to the township to take her name off the permit app. and she took her name off the phone bill. well the next day she decides that she wants to do the business again after all this..in the meantime i was scrambling and trying to come up with the money to do this alone. my mom came to my rescue and lent me money to get started. so when she told me she was in again..i told her i would need to think about it, i told her i really wanted to do this with her, but now i couldnt befcause i had to much debt with my mom. she didnt understand this and blamed my mother instead of herself for deciding she didnt want to do this in the first place and said nasty things about me and my mother again. call me crazy but i understand she was hurt and mad, but she needs to understand i needed to move on. i almost feel like not doing this at all because a job is easy to come by friends are not, but i have to ask myself how much of a friend is she if she is acting like this? also i told her i would still like her to be a part of this with me and work there doing her services, selling the jewlery she makes and doing th front desk if she wanted. i need to hire someone anyway and i would like to have her there. please help us..
