What is the name of your state? Arkansas
I was married for a little over two years. During most of the marriage I was the only one that worked, my wife could not keep a job and did not put much effort into getting a job and made up alot of excuses as to why she did not get a job. We got into an argument and I packed my things and left to stay with my mom. Before I left, she told me to let my mom know that I need to stay one night with her, she told me that she would call me the next day to let me know when we could talk rationally. The next day, I received a phone call from her, that I need to come by the house.
Upon arriving, she proceeds to gather more belongings of mine and told me that she has moved on and that she slept with another man [it was evident with two large hickies on her neck and plus the other man was in the living room ].
It has been very hard on me these past few weeks. Since then she has told me to come home, I've been on a fence about this. On the one side I did not want to return based on the hardship I had with just me working and that she was unfaithful in marriage and on the other, part of me wanted to. But now, I have decided that I want a divorce. I am not sure where I stand concerning alimony. Will I have to pay it or not consiering that even with me not there, she has not put much effort into getting employment.
I was married for a little over two years. During most of the marriage I was the only one that worked, my wife could not keep a job and did not put much effort into getting a job and made up alot of excuses as to why she did not get a job. We got into an argument and I packed my things and left to stay with my mom. Before I left, she told me to let my mom know that I need to stay one night with her, she told me that she would call me the next day to let me know when we could talk rationally. The next day, I received a phone call from her, that I need to come by the house.
Upon arriving, she proceeds to gather more belongings of mine and told me that she has moved on and that she slept with another man [it was evident with two large hickies on her neck and plus the other man was in the living room ].
It has been very hard on me these past few weeks. Since then she has told me to come home, I've been on a fence about this. On the one side I did not want to return based on the hardship I had with just me working and that she was unfaithful in marriage and on the other, part of me wanted to. But now, I have decided that I want a divorce. I am not sure where I stand concerning alimony. Will I have to pay it or not consiering that even with me not there, she has not put much effort into getting employment.