Geez 1mrtym, I didn't know people were being hauled into this forum under threat and forced to read AND take action based on the member's advice. I guess we are all so dumb and weak-minded that we can't think for ourselves.
If you haven't noticed, some of the advice is based on experience, some is based on actual court cases and very precise legal cites. Some is just moral support or indignation. So, you can take your choice about handling your own problem based on a free menu of information that needs only a little thought, some research, some action, and some discretion on your part.
That's called taking responsibility for yourself. If you want all the correct answers to your problem enumerated precisely by the pertinent statutes of your jurisdiction...maybe you need to hire a lawyer and take your chances there.
Here, if someone disagrees with the advice given they will tell you so, and you have more than one opinion from which to choose. Of course, you can do that with lawyers right where you live. Just get out the Yellow Pages and start those fingers walking.