tristinedenise
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? WI
My husband is currently living with another woman. He claimed they were just friends and was staying there while he got help for his alcoholism, but she recently called and told me they've been having an affair even before we got married. I want to know what my options are in suing for divorce. I want nothing out of it, but recognition that she disolved our marriage. I was willing to help him through his rehab, and try to work out our marriage until I found this out. Can I somehow press charges against her for damages? I've lost days of work, had to go to counseling, anger management, and I feel absolutely bitter. Isn't a spouses feelings worth anything anymore? Why is it so easy for someone to destroy your life with no consequences? Is there any way to get around the whole "adultry isn't a crime"? And why isn't it? It feels like murder to me. The other issue is he's been arrested for domestic violence and court ordered to intensive out-patient rehab. His probation states that he is not to drink or go to bars, but this woman is literally buying beer for him, knowing he's on probation. What can I do???
My husband is currently living with another woman. He claimed they were just friends and was staying there while he got help for his alcoholism, but she recently called and told me they've been having an affair even before we got married. I want to know what my options are in suing for divorce. I want nothing out of it, but recognition that she disolved our marriage. I was willing to help him through his rehab, and try to work out our marriage until I found this out. Can I somehow press charges against her for damages? I've lost days of work, had to go to counseling, anger management, and I feel absolutely bitter. Isn't a spouses feelings worth anything anymore? Why is it so easy for someone to destroy your life with no consequences? Is there any way to get around the whole "adultry isn't a crime"? And why isn't it? It feels like murder to me. The other issue is he's been arrested for domestic violence and court ordered to intensive out-patient rehab. His probation states that he is not to drink or go to bars, but this woman is literally buying beer for him, knowing he's on probation. What can I do???
