What is the name of your state? i live in west virginia. I have been married for seventeen years. i have one daughter under twelve years old. My wife is wanting to buy a home, entirely on her own, picking it out and everything. She wants the loan entirely in her name (for some reason she wants my name on the deed). I have a remote suspicion of an affair. Our marriage seems the worse these last two years. She seems "pushy" about buying this house, but she wants to do everything so i won't be "worried". Yes, i'm worried. I'm worried she is planning on getting this newer house, divorcing me, and have me paying for everything. I feel like i'm going crazy and thank goodness i'm seeing a lawyer in a week.