Kathy L. Dean
Junior Member
The name of my state is:
OREGON
My divorce was final on 01 December 2004, and I bought my husband out, so own my ranch in Josphine County, Williams Oregon, My ex-husband purchased property in Texas.
Since December of last year, I have been asking via phone and writing, that he remove his clothes, personal objects, garage tools, vehicles and other items. He just refuses to do so, always saying it will be "next week."
I at last got so frustrated, I actually packed everything for him (took me over one week), got bids from moving companies, scheduled a date for the move, plus even paid for the entire move of his objects to Texas. I had to cancel the whole thing last week because my ex refused to give me, and the moving company his address. He has Bi-polar disorder, and I took care of him for 22 years. I believe him to off some of his meds.
He expected the moving company to meet him at at some predetermined place and time, but this was impossible. I got a cheaper rate due to a "time period" for delivery between 4 to 10 days. We could not get the point across to him.
In spite of what I have gone through, he accuses me of "ruining his 4th of July weekend" and expects me to store all objects, or pay for storage of them somewhere. He claims he is going to sue me (for what?) and throws idle threats at me constantly, claiming he can store all his things here forever if he wants to.
All friends have told me that I should have given everything to Goodwill long ago, but I am not a mean person. I am not capable of doing that.
Does anyone know what the Oregon laws are? How can I get rid of this massive amount of stuff without hurting my ex-husband? How can I force him to come get it? PLEASE HELP!!!
Thanks so much,
Kathy in Williams
OREGON
My divorce was final on 01 December 2004, and I bought my husband out, so own my ranch in Josphine County, Williams Oregon, My ex-husband purchased property in Texas.
Since December of last year, I have been asking via phone and writing, that he remove his clothes, personal objects, garage tools, vehicles and other items. He just refuses to do so, always saying it will be "next week."
I at last got so frustrated, I actually packed everything for him (took me over one week), got bids from moving companies, scheduled a date for the move, plus even paid for the entire move of his objects to Texas. I had to cancel the whole thing last week because my ex refused to give me, and the moving company his address. He has Bi-polar disorder, and I took care of him for 22 years. I believe him to off some of his meds.
He expected the moving company to meet him at at some predetermined place and time, but this was impossible. I got a cheaper rate due to a "time period" for delivery between 4 to 10 days. We could not get the point across to him.
In spite of what I have gone through, he accuses me of "ruining his 4th of July weekend" and expects me to store all objects, or pay for storage of them somewhere. He claims he is going to sue me (for what?) and throws idle threats at me constantly, claiming he can store all his things here forever if he wants to.
All friends have told me that I should have given everything to Goodwill long ago, but I am not a mean person. I am not capable of doing that.
Does anyone know what the Oregon laws are? How can I get rid of this massive amount of stuff without hurting my ex-husband? How can I force him to come get it? PLEASE HELP!!!
Thanks so much,
Kathy in Williams
