feelin_helpless
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Florida
My boyfriend was put on 2 yrs probation for Grand Theft Auto and Possession (both 3rd degree felonies) in Mar 2005... he recently was arrested for Burglery (3rd degree felony) and Petit Theft (1st degree misdemeanor)... he was release on bond, and told by his PO to turn himself in for VOP... he did and is now being held with no bond.
He has been appointed 2 different Public Def. and I've asked to make appointments with them, but unfortunately they don't make appts with family and friends. And I've spoke to several lawyers, all of whom are out of my price range and give vague legal advice.
Right now, I'm trying to do all that I can to help him with his cases... I've just become the only source of income for the household and the only available parent to our 3 kids... and I am sooo lost and confused.
My questions...
1. My boyfriend got the burglery/petit theft charge for stealing a cell phone out of someone's unlocked car... the property (car/phone) was not damaged... and the phone was returned to the victim. I'm not sure how the burglery equates to the grand theft auto charge... how come they hold the same level/degree (3rd degree felony)?
2. Is it inappropriate for me to write a letter to the judge (who is very "heavy handed") asking her to reconsider her decision to hold him w/o bond? Do I address it to her, the clerk of court, or have it go through the Pub. Def. office first?
3. Is it inappropriate for me to write a letter to the burglery victim (his name and address were in the police/arrest report) asking him to drop the charges... letting him know that even if he drops the charges, my boyfriend will still have to serve time for the VOP? Or will I be making a bad situation worse? Should the Pub. Def. be asking the victim to drop charges?
I know what he did was really stupid, but I don't know anyone that can "cast the first stone"... we all make mistakes in life (some are worse than others). I appreciate any advice/comments/answers that you take the time to provide... I know it is difficult to try and defend someone who clearly was in the wrong.
My boyfriend was put on 2 yrs probation for Grand Theft Auto and Possession (both 3rd degree felonies) in Mar 2005... he recently was arrested for Burglery (3rd degree felony) and Petit Theft (1st degree misdemeanor)... he was release on bond, and told by his PO to turn himself in for VOP... he did and is now being held with no bond.
He has been appointed 2 different Public Def. and I've asked to make appointments with them, but unfortunately they don't make appts with family and friends. And I've spoke to several lawyers, all of whom are out of my price range and give vague legal advice.
Right now, I'm trying to do all that I can to help him with his cases... I've just become the only source of income for the household and the only available parent to our 3 kids... and I am sooo lost and confused.
My questions...
1. My boyfriend got the burglery/petit theft charge for stealing a cell phone out of someone's unlocked car... the property (car/phone) was not damaged... and the phone was returned to the victim. I'm not sure how the burglery equates to the grand theft auto charge... how come they hold the same level/degree (3rd degree felony)?
2. Is it inappropriate for me to write a letter to the judge (who is very "heavy handed") asking her to reconsider her decision to hold him w/o bond? Do I address it to her, the clerk of court, or have it go through the Pub. Def. office first?
3. Is it inappropriate for me to write a letter to the burglery victim (his name and address were in the police/arrest report) asking him to drop the charges... letting him know that even if he drops the charges, my boyfriend will still have to serve time for the VOP? Or will I be making a bad situation worse? Should the Pub. Def. be asking the victim to drop charges?
I know what he did was really stupid, but I don't know anyone that can "cast the first stone"... we all make mistakes in life (some are worse than others). I appreciate any advice/comments/answers that you take the time to provide... I know it is difficult to try and defend someone who clearly was in the wrong.