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Ckret01
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Hello, a am new to this site.
I work in an environment of approx. 50 employees.
There is a Christmas party today in about four hours at a hotel. I can't make it.
I was advised by my manager that I will not attend.
Two weeks prior, I advised the person in charge that I will not be attending, everything was fine, till yesterday.
Yesterday, I advised my manger that I will not be attending and that I notified the person in charge two weeks prior.
He advised me that I WILL BE ATTENDING.
My reply, " The party was not mandatory and it was a a choice to go"
He advise, "We will see, you are going!"
My reply, " I didn't recieve any statement regading that I everybody has to attend or a verbal agreement"
He advised, "We will see tommorrow"
NOTE:
This was in confidence in his office. He later came out of his office and advised everybody that I am not going.
It was a personel issue not an everybody issue.
Today, again I was advised I was going.
My reply, "I didn't have any time to prepare because I advised the person in charge I was not attending(everybody here is dress up)
His reply "You are still going"
I advised him I appreciate the offer, however I still am not attending. It was achoice in attending not mandatory. I will not feel comfortable being I am not dressed and it is against my will to go, plus ther was no prior comfirmation in a mandatory attendance.
His reply, I am going to another manager to make you go!
Can anybody help me!!!!!!!!!
I work in an environment of approx. 50 employees.
There is a Christmas party today in about four hours at a hotel. I can't make it.
I was advised by my manager that I will not attend.
Two weeks prior, I advised the person in charge that I will not be attending, everything was fine, till yesterday.
Yesterday, I advised my manger that I will not be attending and that I notified the person in charge two weeks prior.
He advised me that I WILL BE ATTENDING.
My reply, " The party was not mandatory and it was a a choice to go"
He advise, "We will see, you are going!"
My reply, " I didn't recieve any statement regading that I everybody has to attend or a verbal agreement"
He advised, "We will see tommorrow"
NOTE:
This was in confidence in his office. He later came out of his office and advised everybody that I am not going.
It was a personel issue not an everybody issue.
Today, again I was advised I was going.
My reply, "I didn't have any time to prepare because I advised the person in charge I was not attending(everybody here is dress up)
His reply "You are still going"
I advised him I appreciate the offer, however I still am not attending. It was achoice in attending not mandatory. I will not feel comfortable being I am not dressed and it is against my will to go, plus ther was no prior comfirmation in a mandatory attendance.
His reply, I am going to another manager to make you go!
Can anybody help me!!!!!!!!!