I do feel for you and understand the headache you must be going through. My brother-in-law was addicted to drugs. Two years ago he was murdered by a drug dealer. Life hasn't been the same in my house since. We tried to get him to get help, but always said he didn't have a problem. He lived with us three different times and we were hoping he'd finally get his act together. It's very tough to see someone you love be blinded by things that are so obvious to others. I wish you the best of luck. The only advice I could give at this point is, if she's old enough to make her decisions on who she dates, she grown up enough to pay for her own car and insurance. Explain to her that because of the situation she's put you in with her boyfriend, it isn't fair for the rest of your family to be put at risk. It's that simple. Unfortunately, she's probably in love with this guy and at her young age, she doesn't understand the responsibility that comes along with being a responsible person and taking care of a whole family. Sorry I was so rough on you in the earlier post.