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rainbow
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I have been in a very controlling marriage for close to 9 years. In June 2000 I petitioned for a "refrain from" order of protection, that was supposed to stop my husband from harrassing me and playing his mind games with me and the children.I have 2 daughters, one is from my first marriage and he uses her to play games by telling her things such as what he is going to do next to "mentally" hurt me, in the hopes she will tell me and I would confront him about him "screwing" with her head... He moved to a different state, quitting his job and breaking all ties here, just to come back 3 days later. I asked for a restraining order but it was denied because he hasn't assaulted me. I was granted another "refrain from" order (yes, I was stupid and dropped the first one) but he will not stop his games. He has programs in the computer that log everyone of my keystrokes so he knows what I type, passwords...etc. He has already removed things from the house, is staying with his parents, but tracks every one of my moves by using these programs, recording phone conversations....I can't do ANYTHING without having to look over my shoulders and now that he is unemployed he has all the time in the world to "check" on me. He even went as far as translating my journal which I keep in my mothertongue to see what I do. He lives with his parents but has the right to show up anytime he pleases....where is my right to privacy???
My nerves are shot...the kids are tense....how much more do I have to put up with?
My nerves are shot...the kids are tense....how much more do I have to put up with?