What is the name of your state? CALIFORNIA
FACT; I have been seperated from X since 2000. We live in two seperate counties. We have 2 children of which I have been sole custodian of for 5 and a half years(X took off with cousin and avioded/abandoned children - desired no visitation until recently). X filed all the divorce paperwork, I received copies, I signed final paperwork and sent back... 6 years later, I find out divorce was never finalized...
QUESTION; What can I do? Is there a way to file a default after all these years? What is that process? How do I go about getting a change of Venue and where do I find the points and authorities for a venue change?
FACT; I went today (7-3-06) to have paperwork completed to finalize divorce; Was told that X has now decided to ask for Spousal Support (after giving that up 6 years ago).
QUESTION; Can X ask for Spousal Support after so many years and after the original paperwork said she waived it? She also makes pretty close to what I make now - and I have custody of the 2 children. We spilt after 9 years of marriage.
FACT; X has three year old child with 2nd Cousin. Cousin is in prison for Assault/Drugs and when he gets out, he'll be back with her...
QUESTION; Isn't this illegal? How can I use this to prove X unfit?
FACT; X lives in a one bedroom apartment, with child she had with cousin. Oldest of our children is 13. can court demand that he have his own room, if he decides to go live with her? X shares her room with her 3 year old.
FACT; X owes father child support for past 6 years, Child support office has done nothing to collect from her for our two children. She still has her license and owes $35,000.00 in child support and arrears.
QUESTION; How can I make them enforce the order? How long does a wage assignment take to enforce? What about them pulling her license?
Thank you for your time!!
SEB1670
FACT; I have been seperated from X since 2000. We live in two seperate counties. We have 2 children of which I have been sole custodian of for 5 and a half years(X took off with cousin and avioded/abandoned children - desired no visitation until recently). X filed all the divorce paperwork, I received copies, I signed final paperwork and sent back... 6 years later, I find out divorce was never finalized...
QUESTION; What can I do? Is there a way to file a default after all these years? What is that process? How do I go about getting a change of Venue and where do I find the points and authorities for a venue change?
FACT; I went today (7-3-06) to have paperwork completed to finalize divorce; Was told that X has now decided to ask for Spousal Support (after giving that up 6 years ago).
QUESTION; Can X ask for Spousal Support after so many years and after the original paperwork said she waived it? She also makes pretty close to what I make now - and I have custody of the 2 children. We spilt after 9 years of marriage.
FACT; X has three year old child with 2nd Cousin. Cousin is in prison for Assault/Drugs and when he gets out, he'll be back with her...
QUESTION; Isn't this illegal? How can I use this to prove X unfit?
FACT; X lives in a one bedroom apartment, with child she had with cousin. Oldest of our children is 13. can court demand that he have his own room, if he decides to go live with her? X shares her room with her 3 year old.
FACT; X owes father child support for past 6 years, Child support office has done nothing to collect from her for our two children. She still has her license and owes $35,000.00 in child support and arrears.
QUESTION; How can I make them enforce the order? How long does a wage assignment take to enforce? What about them pulling her license?
Thank you for your time!!
SEB1670
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