What is the name of your state? nv my son was involved in an accident on school property. He hit the back of her stopped car. no police were called. was going to handle out of pocket. first estimate from her was $1500. went for more estimates. it has been over a month since the incident and now she wants me to submit it to my insurance because the estimates could be near $3000 plus car rental. Should I make the claim or wait until she does and i am contacted?? Also my son has moved out of state with new insurance. will his rate go up or mine??