justsomeguy
Member
Ok, so this is probably the last forum on the planet I should post this in, but I will anyway.
I'm wondering if anyone in here has gone through counseling of some type and found it useful.
I'm personally in a situation where I love my wife and I know she loves me, I think we're amazing together, most of the time..... but we have problems other times. Some of them I don't think I can deal with forever, or more so, .. .I know I cant.
More than anything I want to be with her, and have everything be great, so I usually pretend our bad times don't happen, but I don't think that is the healthy way to go about it.
I tend to be very annoying, and she has problems with her anger. So basically at times I am very annoying to her, in one way or another and she gets violent, or reckless, and abusive.
I've never seriously considered divorce, I dread the thought actually, I just want us to be great.
Anyway, I'm just looking for some random opinions.. do you all think counseling will help, I think she's up for it, I know I am.
thanks,
I'm wondering if anyone in here has gone through counseling of some type and found it useful.
I'm personally in a situation where I love my wife and I know she loves me, I think we're amazing together, most of the time..... but we have problems other times. Some of them I don't think I can deal with forever, or more so, .. .I know I cant.
More than anything I want to be with her, and have everything be great, so I usually pretend our bad times don't happen, but I don't think that is the healthy way to go about it.
I tend to be very annoying, and she has problems with her anger. So basically at times I am very annoying to her, in one way or another and she gets violent, or reckless, and abusive.
I've never seriously considered divorce, I dread the thought actually, I just want us to be great.
Anyway, I'm just looking for some random opinions.. do you all think counseling will help, I think she's up for it, I know I am.
thanks,