Niki_Trinity
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? TN
I have a few questions about legal separation. First here is my situation...
I am 19 and have been with a man who is 25 for 4 years and married one year . Recently he has started staying out all night, using phone sex hotlines, and cheating more or less physically. he ran the phone bill up to 2000 dollars doing these things. through out the marriage he was abusive especially when i was pregnant. we have now separated and i have moved back home(parents) i have been here for about 1 month and a half . he has seen our 6 month old maybe 8 days and has only given 100 dollars to help. he now refuses to see her but says he wants custody. i am a stay at home mom looking for a job now and need opinions about legal separation or divorce....
1) who would get custody if he fights would the fact he hasnt been visiting her mean anything in court.
2) the phone bill was in my name but i have the bill that shows it was his line that ran up the charges can i get him to pay that back since it blew my credit.
3)am i better off separating or divorcing
4)would the court look the abuse when deciding custody if i have witnesses and photos to prove it.
5)would i receive my half of the income tax that he claimed myself and dd on.
i cannot thank those who reply enough. im very scared of what he can or will do and need help fast.What is the name of your state?
I have a few questions about legal separation. First here is my situation...
I am 19 and have been with a man who is 25 for 4 years and married one year . Recently he has started staying out all night, using phone sex hotlines, and cheating more or less physically. he ran the phone bill up to 2000 dollars doing these things. through out the marriage he was abusive especially when i was pregnant. we have now separated and i have moved back home(parents) i have been here for about 1 month and a half . he has seen our 6 month old maybe 8 days and has only given 100 dollars to help. he now refuses to see her but says he wants custody. i am a stay at home mom looking for a job now and need opinions about legal separation or divorce....
1) who would get custody if he fights would the fact he hasnt been visiting her mean anything in court.
2) the phone bill was in my name but i have the bill that shows it was his line that ran up the charges can i get him to pay that back since it blew my credit.
3)am i better off separating or divorcing
4)would the court look the abuse when deciding custody if i have witnesses and photos to prove it.
5)would i receive my half of the income tax that he claimed myself and dd on.
i cannot thank those who reply enough. im very scared of what he can or will do and need help fast.What is the name of your state?