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Kaley
Guest
Hi! I live in West Virginia and my
question is about harassment (phone,
written and in person harassment).
Ten years ago I married into an
Indian-American family (India). My husband was born here but half of his
family is in India the other half (Aunts/Uncles, etc.) have only been here about 15 years. We met in college and when my husband told his family he was going to marry a white american they went crazy with threats. First it was I will never be accepted/kids will
never be accepted (so we decided not to have kids)/they hoped for a divorce (they wanted my husband to have an arranged marriage)/he would be disowned/his parents and brother did not attend the wedding/if anything ever happened we would not be helped/they advised my husband to keep me as a mistress (I was a virgin when I met my husband). So with all this we married and accepted this now and over the past 10 years they cannot leave this alone. They love the drama of this hate. They believe nothing can stop them and my husbands brother has written he will never stop. They threatend us not to have kids now to have kids. They want us to come see them so they can argue. It seems the whole family is obsessed with this. I
even told my husbands father the last time he called just to find my husband an Indian wife so they will be happy and now they do not want that. It seems like I am the only prey they want. How can I stop this? Any help
would be appreciated. Thank you!
question is about harassment (phone,
written and in person harassment).
Ten years ago I married into an
Indian-American family (India). My husband was born here but half of his
family is in India the other half (Aunts/Uncles, etc.) have only been here about 15 years. We met in college and when my husband told his family he was going to marry a white american they went crazy with threats. First it was I will never be accepted/kids will
never be accepted (so we decided not to have kids)/they hoped for a divorce (they wanted my husband to have an arranged marriage)/he would be disowned/his parents and brother did not attend the wedding/if anything ever happened we would not be helped/they advised my husband to keep me as a mistress (I was a virgin when I met my husband). So with all this we married and accepted this now and over the past 10 years they cannot leave this alone. They love the drama of this hate. They believe nothing can stop them and my husbands brother has written he will never stop. They threatend us not to have kids now to have kids. They want us to come see them so they can argue. It seems the whole family is obsessed with this. I
even told my husbands father the last time he called just to find my husband an Indian wife so they will be happy and now they do not want that. It seems like I am the only prey they want. How can I stop this? Any help
would be appreciated. Thank you!