What is the name of your state? florida but Mom lives in Mississippi. I discovered a very disturbing truth today, I really need some advice. My mother is 84 years young and has a younger boyfriend, 71. First he was a tenant in her apartment which is attached to her house, two weeks later hes in her bedroom, Don't get m,e wrong but Moms really ugly and scarrey looking ,a botched up face lift (looks like a twisted stroke) but shes also very mean and selfish to her children but friendly and helpful to low life strangers(not anyone with class) We discovered that she now has a joint checking account,doesn't trust us and says that we don't like Bill. well he had an accident and God acts in mysterious ways. We were able to look around through some paperwork and found that Bill likes to spend mamas money at the local poker table. Checks for 150.00-500.00 per day were written either from moms account, their joint account or his account. Total one week was 1800.00(he gambled 4 days that week)
Also I must add that mom is a miser,shops a thrift stores and day old bread shops,to eat out its usually Wendys. I feel so saddened by what this man is doing but when I told her and showed her the paperwork she got upset(not with him but with us)She is so dependent on him and acts like hes so good to her. Hes lazy and manipulative,doesn't even put the trash out or pay his way. The grass was 6' high and he didn't try to get anyone to cut ituntil he got a letter from the city.. Now hes talking marriage, I looked in his checkbook when he first met her he had a balance of 2000.00 his balance is now 22,800.00 Is there anything we can do to help protect an elderly person with dimentia from a thief like this if she doesn't want help or think she needs it, most of the time she doesn't even know where she is or what shes doing and has to ask him so he can remind her of her present position, Also he tries to stop any family activity and takes her away from the house most of the time. Hel we need some advice !!!!!!!!!!What is the name of your state?
Also I must add that mom is a miser,shops a thrift stores and day old bread shops,to eat out its usually Wendys. I feel so saddened by what this man is doing but when I told her and showed her the paperwork she got upset(not with him but with us)She is so dependent on him and acts like hes so good to her. Hes lazy and manipulative,doesn't even put the trash out or pay his way. The grass was 6' high and he didn't try to get anyone to cut ituntil he got a letter from the city.. Now hes talking marriage, I looked in his checkbook when he first met her he had a balance of 2000.00 his balance is now 22,800.00 Is there anything we can do to help protect an elderly person with dimentia from a thief like this if she doesn't want help or think she needs it, most of the time she doesn't even know where she is or what shes doing and has to ask him so he can remind her of her present position, Also he tries to stop any family activity and takes her away from the house most of the time. Hel we need some advice !!!!!!!!!!What is the name of your state?
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