What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
My 17 yr. old daughter has just informed me 3 weeks ago that she is pregnant from a 28 year old guy. I didn't even know she had a boyfriend!
Anyway he was previously charged and incarcerated for having sex with a 16 yr old when he was 21.
My daughter says she loves him,and he says he loves her and she has begged me NOT to have him charged. I don't want to alienate my daughter even further.
My question is this:
If I allow her to see him until the baby is born to see if he takes responsibility as he claims he will, does this nullify my ability to charge him in the future if things don't work out? IN other words do I suddenly become a participant in a crime of allowing my daughter to see this guy?!
It is a VERY difficult position to be in as I do not believe in abortion nor does my daughter. I have met the guy, he seems sincere enough for someone who has admitted to having used drugs, been in jail etc.. everything that is a parent's worst nightmare.
If I do get him arrested, he goes away for a long time, but then I lose my daughter AND my grandchild. If I allow her to see him and then things don't work out do I nullify my ability to use the threat of jail to keep him in line to support her and the baby?
What are my options?!
My 17 yr. old daughter has just informed me 3 weeks ago that she is pregnant from a 28 year old guy. I didn't even know she had a boyfriend!
Anyway he was previously charged and incarcerated for having sex with a 16 yr old when he was 21.
My daughter says she loves him,and he says he loves her and she has begged me NOT to have him charged. I don't want to alienate my daughter even further.
My question is this:
If I allow her to see him until the baby is born to see if he takes responsibility as he claims he will, does this nullify my ability to charge him in the future if things don't work out? IN other words do I suddenly become a participant in a crime of allowing my daughter to see this guy?!
It is a VERY difficult position to be in as I do not believe in abortion nor does my daughter. I have met the guy, he seems sincere enough for someone who has admitted to having used drugs, been in jail etc.. everything that is a parent's worst nightmare.
If I do get him arrested, he goes away for a long time, but then I lose my daughter AND my grandchild. If I allow her to see him and then things don't work out do I nullify my ability to use the threat of jail to keep him in line to support her and the baby?
What are my options?!