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Kytka
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Hello.
I am in dire need of assistance. Three years ago I spoke to my Grand-Uncle in FLORIDA for the very last time. I lived 3000 miles away and when I sent a holiday card I was shocked that it was returned marked "moved out - no forwarding address". I have JUST recently learned that a woman identifying herself as his neice, buried him at the funeral where his wife rests (she died in '86) and notified NO ONE. The ONLY family he has is my father and my Uncle and me. NONE of us were notified. This woman was his HOUSEKEEPER. My last correspondence was in the form of letters discussing moving him out and into our home. I know she read his mail to him. I also have been informed by the place where he resided that she wrote her name as "Emergency Contact - Next of Kin" form. I have also discovered through a Private Investigator that she handled some of his affairs at a bank where he held an account. He is involved because of some unclaimed property he owns in Europe. NO ONE WILL TELL ME ANYTHING! Now that she has established herself as a relative, and I have shown otherwise, (afraid of liability for taking her statements at face value perhaps?) NO ONE will discuss anything or talk to me. The police are unwilling to help. No probate has been filed, and because no probate has been filed, his death certificate is not even listed in the county of his death (although I do have a copy now).
Where do I begin? The woman at the funeral home said that the woman posing as the niece paid the $816.oo outstanding balance on the funeral charges 3 weeks after his death on a check and marked it POA (Power of Attorney)... and the bank letter states that she was his "Representative". But there is no record of ANYTHING filed in the courts. Where should I look? What next? Would/should any of this be filed? I am afraid to approach her without legal or even police back-up. My Grand Uncle had some wealth in the form of coins, gold, diamonds, etc... all which I believe may exist in a safe deposit box. I also knew him to have a will, but since she moved him and all of his belongings out THREE years ago, and he died in 1997, I fear all is lost. Did she have a LEGAL obligation to notify us? I know she had my address because she sent holiday cards. She had his address books, etc... EVERYTHING. I fear she intentionally is hiding his will or has already falsley made away with the contents of the safe deposit box... WHAT DO I DO???
Any advice would be most appreciated.
Kytka
I am in dire need of assistance. Three years ago I spoke to my Grand-Uncle in FLORIDA for the very last time. I lived 3000 miles away and when I sent a holiday card I was shocked that it was returned marked "moved out - no forwarding address". I have JUST recently learned that a woman identifying herself as his neice, buried him at the funeral where his wife rests (she died in '86) and notified NO ONE. The ONLY family he has is my father and my Uncle and me. NONE of us were notified. This woman was his HOUSEKEEPER. My last correspondence was in the form of letters discussing moving him out and into our home. I know she read his mail to him. I also have been informed by the place where he resided that she wrote her name as "Emergency Contact - Next of Kin" form. I have also discovered through a Private Investigator that she handled some of his affairs at a bank where he held an account. He is involved because of some unclaimed property he owns in Europe. NO ONE WILL TELL ME ANYTHING! Now that she has established herself as a relative, and I have shown otherwise, (afraid of liability for taking her statements at face value perhaps?) NO ONE will discuss anything or talk to me. The police are unwilling to help. No probate has been filed, and because no probate has been filed, his death certificate is not even listed in the county of his death (although I do have a copy now).
Where do I begin? The woman at the funeral home said that the woman posing as the niece paid the $816.oo outstanding balance on the funeral charges 3 weeks after his death on a check and marked it POA (Power of Attorney)... and the bank letter states that she was his "Representative". But there is no record of ANYTHING filed in the courts. Where should I look? What next? Would/should any of this be filed? I am afraid to approach her without legal or even police back-up. My Grand Uncle had some wealth in the form of coins, gold, diamonds, etc... all which I believe may exist in a safe deposit box. I also knew him to have a will, but since she moved him and all of his belongings out THREE years ago, and he died in 1997, I fear all is lost. Did she have a LEGAL obligation to notify us? I know she had my address because she sent holiday cards. She had his address books, etc... EVERYTHING. I fear she intentionally is hiding his will or has already falsley made away with the contents of the safe deposit box... WHAT DO I DO???
Any advice would be most appreciated.
Kytka