What is the name of your state? MN
My stbx claimed I was alienating our child from him (he actually didn't care about the child and I was the child's primary caregiver ever since he was born) and so my attorney advised that I go through mediation and give him time with the child (while he's still unemployed) and advised that I go through a 2nd mediation. I could not see anything being resolved at the 1st mediation (not custody-which was a big issue in our case- nor property divisions). My stbx openly told me he will fight until he gets to court for custody of our child so I don't see a point of going through the private party mediations either. I have my attorney attended the 1st mediation and will have him attend the 2nd too if I agree to it - and my attorney advised that I go through these mediations (plus another court mediator and evaluator). I'm confused as to whether these mediations really help me in any way when I get to court (?)....or should I just cancel the 2nd private party mediation and have everything going straight through the court? Any advice's greatly appreciated!
My stbx claimed I was alienating our child from him (he actually didn't care about the child and I was the child's primary caregiver ever since he was born) and so my attorney advised that I go through mediation and give him time with the child (while he's still unemployed) and advised that I go through a 2nd mediation. I could not see anything being resolved at the 1st mediation (not custody-which was a big issue in our case- nor property divisions). My stbx openly told me he will fight until he gets to court for custody of our child so I don't see a point of going through the private party mediations either. I have my attorney attended the 1st mediation and will have him attend the 2nd too if I agree to it - and my attorney advised that I go through these mediations (plus another court mediator and evaluator). I'm confused as to whether these mediations really help me in any way when I get to court (?)....or should I just cancel the 2nd private party mediation and have everything going straight through the court? Any advice's greatly appreciated!