What is the name of your state? California
I'm seeking some advice or knowledge from a person with experience on the below listed situation.
My son's bestfriend lives 2 hours east of us (same state).
1. He got into a fight at his school with a member of a known gang and was suspended from school for a week.
2. The next day someone from that gang supposedly was killed.
3. The cops came to his home and raided his house and took his DNA. They also questioned him and his other friend and took his friends DNA without that child's parent in attendance. They never read these boys their "rights". The cops made the boys hold up papers with their name and stats on them while the cops took their pictures (like mug shots you see of criminals).
4. The cops told this boys mother that they thought her son had something to do with the killing.
This all took place almost 4 weeks ago and they haven't heard anything from the police since then. The mother did call to find out what was going on and they wouldn't tell her anything except that they think her son knows more than he's telling and they alluded to him witnessing who killed that other person and that she should talk to her son and get it out of him. That was it.
When it was time for the boy to return to school, his mother called because she was thinking of changing his schools (because of all the issues) and the school told her that he was no longer welcomed back at their school and that the cops had been there and filled the school in on everything regarding her son.
I'm curious about a few things. First of all, the boy has now come to live with us and is now attending school with my son.
Can the police do all of those things without ever reading this young man his 'rights' and does this now mean he has a criminal record .. because that is what his mom is telling him. They never took his finger prints or booked him or even took him into the station. Everything they did was done in his home. They still have his shoes that they took.
Personally, I think they know he had nothing to do with it but they think he witnessed it and can ID the person who did do it. The young man is 17 by the way and has sworn to me that he had nothing to do with anything that happened. The kid he got in the fight with was a 17 year old classmate and the cops told his mom that a 17 year old was killed the next day but the only thing in the papers was about a 39 year old man being killed in that same area on that same night in question.
For the record, I firmly believe that this young man had nothing to do with it. But regardless I want to know what an expert thinks about the situation and how it has all played out.
I have no clue of what his rights are or what he should be expecting to happen in the future regarding this whole thing. For now, we're focused on him staying with us - getting his grades up - doing positive things and being around positive people. But it feels like there's a huge elephant in the room that we are ignoring but really shouldn't be.
Also - Can a public school just make the choice on their own that this boy can not return even though he was just suspended for the fight and he served his time? What happened to innocent until proven guilty? I don't care that he can't go back to that school - it was a crappy school to begin with and he's already doing better at the school here in our town but I find it alarming that a school can take the word of the police regarding the credibility of this young man without any just cause. The normal punishment at that school for being in a fight is to be suspended. He was and when he wants to come back, they up and decide "sorry, you can't come back now because the police came and told us you're trouble". I really do not "get it" at all.
I'm seeking some advice or knowledge from a person with experience on the below listed situation.
My son's bestfriend lives 2 hours east of us (same state).
1. He got into a fight at his school with a member of a known gang and was suspended from school for a week.
2. The next day someone from that gang supposedly was killed.
3. The cops came to his home and raided his house and took his DNA. They also questioned him and his other friend and took his friends DNA without that child's parent in attendance. They never read these boys their "rights". The cops made the boys hold up papers with their name and stats on them while the cops took their pictures (like mug shots you see of criminals).
4. The cops told this boys mother that they thought her son had something to do with the killing.
This all took place almost 4 weeks ago and they haven't heard anything from the police since then. The mother did call to find out what was going on and they wouldn't tell her anything except that they think her son knows more than he's telling and they alluded to him witnessing who killed that other person and that she should talk to her son and get it out of him. That was it.
When it was time for the boy to return to school, his mother called because she was thinking of changing his schools (because of all the issues) and the school told her that he was no longer welcomed back at their school and that the cops had been there and filled the school in on everything regarding her son.
I'm curious about a few things. First of all, the boy has now come to live with us and is now attending school with my son.
Can the police do all of those things without ever reading this young man his 'rights' and does this now mean he has a criminal record .. because that is what his mom is telling him. They never took his finger prints or booked him or even took him into the station. Everything they did was done in his home. They still have his shoes that they took.
Personally, I think they know he had nothing to do with it but they think he witnessed it and can ID the person who did do it. The young man is 17 by the way and has sworn to me that he had nothing to do with anything that happened. The kid he got in the fight with was a 17 year old classmate and the cops told his mom that a 17 year old was killed the next day but the only thing in the papers was about a 39 year old man being killed in that same area on that same night in question.
For the record, I firmly believe that this young man had nothing to do with it. But regardless I want to know what an expert thinks about the situation and how it has all played out.
I have no clue of what his rights are or what he should be expecting to happen in the future regarding this whole thing. For now, we're focused on him staying with us - getting his grades up - doing positive things and being around positive people. But it feels like there's a huge elephant in the room that we are ignoring but really shouldn't be.
Also - Can a public school just make the choice on their own that this boy can not return even though he was just suspended for the fight and he served his time? What happened to innocent until proven guilty? I don't care that he can't go back to that school - it was a crappy school to begin with and he's already doing better at the school here in our town but I find it alarming that a school can take the word of the police regarding the credibility of this young man without any just cause. The normal punishment at that school for being in a fight is to be suspended. He was and when he wants to come back, they up and decide "sorry, you can't come back now because the police came and told us you're trouble". I really do not "get it" at all.
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