I signed adoption papers in Virginia about 10 yrs ago. Now my son is 12 yrs old and wants to have a relationship with me. I visited him a few times and we had a fantastic time together and a natural connection. Now, his mother informed me that the adopted father does not want me involved at all and is creating a lot of pressure for our son (against his will) to not have a relationship with me. Is it possible to overtun the adoption? If so, what's the likelyhood of success if contested? Thanks, -TCD