Colorado - Caught The Wife In A Relationship About To Bubble
All - I am reaching out trying to better understand what legal leg I have to stand on here in Colorado.
I recently caught my wife in a relationship that was about to blossom but per her there was no sexual contact; however, they talk everyday and send each other tons of IM's each day. She said she started to flirt but when it got serious she backed out; however, she stills talk to him daily.
The cell phone company will not give me access to these said text messages and it appears the only way I can get eyes on those is to have them subpoenaed. I believe that those records will be the defining moment if I forgive her or just proceed forward with legal action.
I feel that I won't get access to these records without going forward with legal action and file for a divorce, but on the other hand if I can see that she was being 100% honest with me about this relationship that maybe our relationship can be reconciled.
Anyone have experience in this territory? What was the outcome?
Many thanks in advance, thank you for listening.
All - I am reaching out trying to better understand what legal leg I have to stand on here in Colorado.
I recently caught my wife in a relationship that was about to blossom but per her there was no sexual contact; however, they talk everyday and send each other tons of IM's each day. She said she started to flirt but when it got serious she backed out; however, she stills talk to him daily.
The cell phone company will not give me access to these said text messages and it appears the only way I can get eyes on those is to have them subpoenaed. I believe that those records will be the defining moment if I forgive her or just proceed forward with legal action.
I feel that I won't get access to these records without going forward with legal action and file for a divorce, but on the other hand if I can see that she was being 100% honest with me about this relationship that maybe our relationship can be reconciled.
Anyone have experience in this territory? What was the outcome?
Many thanks in advance, thank you for listening.