What is the name of your state? Massachusetts
Hi there,
How long can a spouse in denial drag out a divorce? In a nutshell, he is in total denial despite me telling him I don't love him anymore, the marriage is over etc. He's been treating me badly including cheating on me (i have proof for that), and he is registered with every singles site online, including gay sites. Found emails where he is giving out his contact info incl phone number, also posting nude pics of himself there, soliciting sex. Confronting him with that he claims "someone must have signed me up" LOL - just to give you an idea what I'm dealing with here.
Point is every time I try to approach the subject divorce he freaks out, claims he loves me, doesnt want a divorce, telling me I shoudl get a grip on life and grow up.The next day or even the same day he behaves as if we never brought up that topic. Well guess what, meeting a lawyer next week and we will proceed from there.
NOW: I'm expecting him to totally ignore any paperwork that comes from the lawyer (just as he ignores all mail, incl. IRS which i will get to in anther posting). HOW LONG can this be dragged out and what happens if he refuses to sign anything?
We dont have any assets, no kids either. The car is in both our names but he doesnt drive. What if he refuses to sign that over to me? I really expect him to do that.
Can I be taken off the lease at any time? We are on a month-to-month lease now.
Have more questions but this is it for now.
Thank you all so much.
Hi there,
How long can a spouse in denial drag out a divorce? In a nutshell, he is in total denial despite me telling him I don't love him anymore, the marriage is over etc. He's been treating me badly including cheating on me (i have proof for that), and he is registered with every singles site online, including gay sites. Found emails where he is giving out his contact info incl phone number, also posting nude pics of himself there, soliciting sex. Confronting him with that he claims "someone must have signed me up" LOL - just to give you an idea what I'm dealing with here.
Point is every time I try to approach the subject divorce he freaks out, claims he loves me, doesnt want a divorce, telling me I shoudl get a grip on life and grow up.The next day or even the same day he behaves as if we never brought up that topic. Well guess what, meeting a lawyer next week and we will proceed from there.
NOW: I'm expecting him to totally ignore any paperwork that comes from the lawyer (just as he ignores all mail, incl. IRS which i will get to in anther posting). HOW LONG can this be dragged out and what happens if he refuses to sign anything?
We dont have any assets, no kids either. The car is in both our names but he doesnt drive. What if he refuses to sign that over to me? I really expect him to do that.
Can I be taken off the lease at any time? We are on a month-to-month lease now.
Have more questions but this is it for now.
Thank you all so much.