What is the name of your state? California (although married in Missouri)
Okay, first I need some backstory.
My wife and I were married in Dec of 05. In March of 06 I left for basic training for the Air Force. After training was over we began marital difficulties. After a shaky few months of arguing and reconciliation she decided she wanted to end it in Oct of 06.
I talked to the law office on base and he said that I would be using a California based 'Disillusionment of Marriage'. Thus after filling things out I got the papers to her during my break home at the end of Dec.
Long story short, I still don't have the paperwork. I've received it from her but after 8 months. However after 3 trips to the courthouse we kept finding things we needed to redo. Right now she has the paperwork.
Now here comes the two catches. First is I won't be a legal resident of California much longer. My stint here ends in a month or so at which point I'm not sure what to do.
Second is much larger. Around September of last year she got impregnated by another man.
Oh, and a third point as well. She signed a contract with my mom on a new car a couple years back and she keeps missing payments. Currently I'm giving her 600 a month and the car payment is around 300. My mom ends up paying them and then in turn I have to pay my mom. I'm doubling my losses on this one.
I really don't want to push the adultery thing. I too have found someone else but even if that weren't the case I still wouldn't care. And as for the pregnancy thing I just don't want to be responsible for it in any way. I was highly against the divorce in the beginning but at this point I just want this to be over.
I think that's it. Thanks for listening. Maybe I'll get something worthwhile.
Okay, first I need some backstory.
My wife and I were married in Dec of 05. In March of 06 I left for basic training for the Air Force. After training was over we began marital difficulties. After a shaky few months of arguing and reconciliation she decided she wanted to end it in Oct of 06.
I talked to the law office on base and he said that I would be using a California based 'Disillusionment of Marriage'. Thus after filling things out I got the papers to her during my break home at the end of Dec.
Long story short, I still don't have the paperwork. I've received it from her but after 8 months. However after 3 trips to the courthouse we kept finding things we needed to redo. Right now she has the paperwork.
Now here comes the two catches. First is I won't be a legal resident of California much longer. My stint here ends in a month or so at which point I'm not sure what to do.
Second is much larger. Around September of last year she got impregnated by another man.
Oh, and a third point as well. She signed a contract with my mom on a new car a couple years back and she keeps missing payments. Currently I'm giving her 600 a month and the car payment is around 300. My mom ends up paying them and then in turn I have to pay my mom. I'm doubling my losses on this one.
I really don't want to push the adultery thing. I too have found someone else but even if that weren't the case I still wouldn't care. And as for the pregnancy thing I just don't want to be responsible for it in any way. I was highly against the divorce in the beginning but at this point I just want this to be over.
I think that's it. Thanks for listening. Maybe I'll get something worthwhile.