trapped1001
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? New York
I have been married to wife for 12 years, it has been horrible most of my marriage, but we tried to work it our for my 12 year old daughter
recently been getting worst, arguing constantly, i been telling my wife i want a divorce, that i cannot live like this anymore, she refuses, She does not work, she home schools my daughter, which is one reason i think she does not want to give me a divorce.
The fighting has got out of hand from her, she is extremely verbal abusive, when we fight, she will never stop and goes forever and it just escalates, i have never cheated on her or ever hit her, but she has thrown things at me, the other day she hit me with an item and bruised my ankle, she claims it was an accident, and i was going to call the police but she stopped me. I admit I am not perfect myself, but she just drives me insane
She told me if i want a divorce fine but lets refinance so not to leave her with all the bills, i had no idea that one of her credit cards has $30K on it, i was stupid and trusted her to do the bills, my other mistake
I am the sole provider, and this credit is in her name but somehow shows up on my credit report i am not sure how, I do not remember co signing, will i be responsible for this debt? should i just refinance and take care of this debt?
How much alimony am I going to have to pay out for the rest of my life? I make approximately $100K a year.
I have been married to wife for 12 years, it has been horrible most of my marriage, but we tried to work it our for my 12 year old daughter
recently been getting worst, arguing constantly, i been telling my wife i want a divorce, that i cannot live like this anymore, she refuses, She does not work, she home schools my daughter, which is one reason i think she does not want to give me a divorce.
The fighting has got out of hand from her, she is extremely verbal abusive, when we fight, she will never stop and goes forever and it just escalates, i have never cheated on her or ever hit her, but she has thrown things at me, the other day she hit me with an item and bruised my ankle, she claims it was an accident, and i was going to call the police but she stopped me. I admit I am not perfect myself, but she just drives me insane
She told me if i want a divorce fine but lets refinance so not to leave her with all the bills, i had no idea that one of her credit cards has $30K on it, i was stupid and trusted her to do the bills, my other mistake
I am the sole provider, and this credit is in her name but somehow shows up on my credit report i am not sure how, I do not remember co signing, will i be responsible for this debt? should i just refinance and take care of this debt?
How much alimony am I going to have to pay out for the rest of my life? I make approximately $100K a year.