What is the name of your state? California
I need to divorce my wife, for reasons none other than we are like brother and sister
and I just cant live like this any more. After 12-13 years of marriage (long term) I want out. She will not make it easy. She will also have a lawyer paid for my her mom when this happens so I expect to pay alimony. We have no children.
On top of that, we are upside down on our house (owe more than it's worth) with the current housing costs, AND we have debt in excess of 100k. I imagine bankruptcy would be an option??
After I do this, I will be needing new employment which I will be making 1/2 what I am making now. Having said that, I just cant see how I could possibly keep from sleeping on a bus bench.
I feel stuck! Like it's cheaper to keep her! But I cant .. I need to get away. I want to do the right thing, but I also want to be able to 'live' on my own.
Can anyone help shed some light on what I'm facing???
Thanks.
I need to divorce my wife, for reasons none other than we are like brother and sister
and I just cant live like this any more. After 12-13 years of marriage (long term) I want out. She will not make it easy. She will also have a lawyer paid for my her mom when this happens so I expect to pay alimony. We have no children.On top of that, we are upside down on our house (owe more than it's worth) with the current housing costs, AND we have debt in excess of 100k. I imagine bankruptcy would be an option??
After I do this, I will be needing new employment which I will be making 1/2 what I am making now. Having said that, I just cant see how I could possibly keep from sleeping on a bus bench.
I feel stuck! Like it's cheaper to keep her! But I cant .. I need to get away. I want to do the right thing, but I also want to be able to 'live' on my own.
Can anyone help shed some light on what I'm facing???
Thanks.
