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Nina1299
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What is the name of your state? California
Sorry, but I am honestly a firm believer in completely ending one relationship before embarking on another.I know that in your mind because someone is legally married to someone that in the legal sense...yes it's CALLED adultery. But what about all those people out there that leave their spouses, move on, find separate housing, accounts, and mates but they're still "married"...because of financial issues, or because the other spouse doesn't want to give up her benefits? when you hear married man you automatically think that he had an affair, but you would be wrong. And something you don't know about the military is that some people get married to partners and never actually have a relationship with them....so your adultery comment doesn't work in my situation...I asked a simple question about when the final papers have to be signed, not an opinion of someone that judges. Remember there are many people out there with issues and some of the time....the other party involved (EX WIFE) isn't a martyr, so instead of judging open your mind to possibilities.
.As long as she stays married to him she can still control him with his job because he is in the army
Yes, I'm ancient at 35. Decrepit, even....I never said they didn't have relations, I was giving an example of some marriages in the military, I'm no fool they were married and have two children. I'm not defensive about being with a married man, I'm defensive about people that I try to get advice from already taking the side of the poor woman that makes everyone's life a living hell, yes everyone, mine, his, his poor children, and others she comes in contact with...and WE are in this together because even though I may not be on that paperwork, we are a team, he asked me to be a part of everything because we work together to get through things...so yes WE...I come on to these sites to get answers to questions, and if someone as an opinion that's fine but it's usually women like you, who, no offense because I don't know, but you're probably older and you have your views on what you think is right but there are different people out there so sometimes opinions aren't always something to be shared. I simply was asking for answer to a question....now that's the black and white of it
You are going through nothing. Absolutely nothing.My question is, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. He has been separated from his wife for almost 2 and 1/2. He filed for divorce 2 years ago and we are still going through BS.
Forever. She NEVER has to sign them.She is a bitter woman that wants to make our lives difficult, so my question is, the final papers have been drawn up for awhile now and we are just awaiting her signature...how long does she have to sit on them?
Nope.I thought there was a certain time that she had to FEDEX them back to us?????
There is treatment available for that.Please help I'm going insane.
She is not nuts -- she is NOT an ex wife.As long as she stays married to him she can still control him with his job because he is in the army. Ex WIVES are nuts
Now he waits and hopes that his WIFE doesn't decide to pursue adultery with his supervisor. The military frowns on adultery.He has filed for a bifurcation and the judge won't allow it because we aren't planning on getting married yet...so he has begged and pleaded with his lawyer but there is nothing he can do......my boyfriend already signed his part so now what?
Oh really? She NEVER has to consent to divorce. maybe your boyfriend should have considered who he married.That was my question....and as for the not so ex wife....would've been an ex wife along time ago if she hadn't sat on everything forever while my boyfriend was over in the desert protecting our freedoms.
Poor thing....We want this over with....
Yep it is adultery.I know that in your mind because someone is legally married to someone that in the legal sense...yes it's CALLED adultery.
Still legally adultery.But what about all those people out there that leave their spouses, move on, find separate housing, accounts, and mates but they're still "married"...because of financial issues, or because the other spouse doesn't want to give up her benefits?
YOu know what I am thinking?when you hear married man you automatically think that he had an affair, but you would be wrong.
Actually legally it does. You are committing adultery. END of story.And something you don't know about the military is that some people get married to partners and never actually have a relationship with them....so your adultery comment doesn't work in my situation...
Jeez, I thought this was a legal question which is going to be heard by someone who judges. You know, the person in a black robe -- a JUDGE.I asked a simple question about when the final papers have to be signed, not an opinion of someone that judges.
She is NOT an ex wife... she is HIS WIFE.Remember there are many people out there with issues and some of the time....the other party involved (EX WIFE) isn't a martyr, so instead of judging open your mind to possibilities.
You are trespassing on her property and you are angry at her? You say she is bitter but you are the bitter adulterous woman.Actually I was not complaining about his relationship with me ruining his career, what I was complaining about is the fact that this woman will not sack up and move on.
So you are used to adultery.I've been through this situation myself, along with watching my mother. It's 2008 and women are independent and can stand on their own.
Really? What has your boyfriend done other than complain about it?It's pathetic that after 2 1/2 years someone could still be dragging their feet.
Not really.It sounds to me like you've been through something like this and that's your business but atleast try to look at it from another perspective. Believe it or not, this woman has more control over that divorce than you know...
YOU have not filed for anything unless you are divorcing her.I've gone to the lawyer with my boyfriend and we have filed for bifurcations, he has offered to give her every dime...
Oh really? How?but she agrees to everything and then at the last minute changes her mind....she not only makes more money than him but has stolen money from his credit cards...
They call because she YELLS? Give me a break. Should we say poor adulterous tramp?so by all means...feel bad for her....but understand she's a monster and their are two beautiful children involved that secretly call their dad because she will yell....aww..poor married woman
I only got half of it? I quoted all of it. Irrelevant phrases? Hmmm.. I read the whole story. You apparently don't like the facts I gave you. How about this -- go hire an attorn... oh wait. You are NOT a party to this except a third party who is committing adultery with a married man. Which by the way is a legal fact. So you may be brought into this big time.Hey Ohiogal, do yourself a favor, before you start uttering irrelevant phrases, try reading the whole story about what I wrote. You only got half of it and your opinion, yeah, no one cares about someone's closed minded, outdated thoughts on life.... thanks