pippiredstockin
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? CA
Well lets see if i can do this in a nutshell... My x-husband moved out last july..we were married 9 years, this june it would be 10. I have a lawyer, but maybe im not asking the right ?? He evaded the divorce papers for months finally in Dec. they finally got him. I was a stay at home wife and mom our entire marriage . When he left he gave no finacial support and continues to harass me. He has bounced job to job and says it is all my fault. I was a verbally abused the entire marriage. I of course went and got 2 jobs and have been worin my butt off for my 6 yr old daughter and myself. Over this whole time period i have received $500 from him bit by bit. he has even asked me for $$. ( i didnt give it to him) He is supposed to see my daughter tues after school and friday after school to saturday dinner. He never quite seems to be able to swing this excuse after excuse. He tells me that is an impossible schedule for him to keep and to give an example he hasnt seen her in over 3 weeks. I am NOT makin it. The financial burden it sinking me. I am doin my best but how much longer can i wait to get support. What are the consequences he can face. What can I do?? o and he is Bipolar. So the roller coaster of him doesnt help. I have lost days at work, and he has disturbed by employer as well. Any advice?What is the name of your state?ca
Well lets see if i can do this in a nutshell... My x-husband moved out last july..we were married 9 years, this june it would be 10. I have a lawyer, but maybe im not asking the right ?? He evaded the divorce papers for months finally in Dec. they finally got him. I was a stay at home wife and mom our entire marriage . When he left he gave no finacial support and continues to harass me. He has bounced job to job and says it is all my fault. I was a verbally abused the entire marriage. I of course went and got 2 jobs and have been worin my butt off for my 6 yr old daughter and myself. Over this whole time period i have received $500 from him bit by bit. he has even asked me for $$. ( i didnt give it to him) He is supposed to see my daughter tues after school and friday after school to saturday dinner. He never quite seems to be able to swing this excuse after excuse. He tells me that is an impossible schedule for him to keep and to give an example he hasnt seen her in over 3 weeks. I am NOT makin it. The financial burden it sinking me. I am doin my best but how much longer can i wait to get support. What are the consequences he can face. What can I do?? o and he is Bipolar. So the roller coaster of him doesnt help. I have lost days at work, and he has disturbed by employer as well. Any advice?What is the name of your state?ca
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