What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NC
Well my grandmother was diagnose with early stage alzherimers last year.
The two others knew this info 7 months before they let me know hmmm.....
I was informed the money in her will was to split between me her only grandson and her two kids.
One being my father who did not raise me. Grandmother has been my legal guardian
since 15 years old....I'm know early 30's and just waking up to what's going on over the last year.
When my grandmother feel ill my aunt came to me and told me my grandmother
would split her money 3 ways among the 3 of us. Even my grandmother had
voluntary told me this same information. And also told me about the property
that I live in that I would get this also. I do beleive this was STATED in her will at once
but fishy things have been going on.
1st and foremost my Aunt is now power of attorney over my grandmother
who still by the way has her wits in her still early stage diagnoses,secondly
my aunt has a drug habit. .....Now the word is according to my father who
I don't exactly trust by the way is that My Aunt will get the entire sum of money
in the event of my grandmother passing. And futhermore this house I was suppose
to inherit will have my aunts name on the deed all of a sudden with mine
she even almost proudly told this to me one day....I told grandmother
and she seemed confused and mad at this info this is her most prize
property value and historic house estimated $450,000....Auntie already
getting 3 properties willed to her btw...something smells fishy
The deal is both of them (dad and aunt) I beleive have been working together (no real proof.)
To get me off the will. Or to skew things in there selfish favor.
They both have seen the will and I have never seen it once they
both are in the 40's and 50 years old and are opportunist. I have been playing catch up to the slickness and
slimiest that I feel is occurring right now. I went to my grandmother
and she has her insticnts that my aunt is up to some funny business. Her laywer is sending
her a copy of the will, do to my ongoing inquisitiveness she called him today and he will send it out via mail.
She said after she reviewed it she would like me to carry her to her lawyer. And told me this
info was between her and I. Don't know how far this will go.
But what should be my next step after I review the document. My Grandmother keeps telling
me "the older the will is the better" I'm just hurt that things have gotten this way
but I'm ready to fight tooth and nail to NOT let my grandmother get taking advantage
of and have her original wishes carried out in the event of her passing.
Does my aunt have the power to change my grandmothers will like I suspect she did?
Should I approach my Aunt...who told me the money would go 3 ways?....I know she is on drugs
big time this concerns me......Any advice would be appreciated.
Well my grandmother was diagnose with early stage alzherimers last year.
The two others knew this info 7 months before they let me know hmmm.....
I was informed the money in her will was to split between me her only grandson and her two kids.
One being my father who did not raise me. Grandmother has been my legal guardian
since 15 years old....I'm know early 30's and just waking up to what's going on over the last year.
When my grandmother feel ill my aunt came to me and told me my grandmother
would split her money 3 ways among the 3 of us. Even my grandmother had
voluntary told me this same information. And also told me about the property
that I live in that I would get this also. I do beleive this was STATED in her will at once
but fishy things have been going on.
1st and foremost my Aunt is now power of attorney over my grandmother
who still by the way has her wits in her still early stage diagnoses,secondly
my aunt has a drug habit. .....Now the word is according to my father who
I don't exactly trust by the way is that My Aunt will get the entire sum of money
in the event of my grandmother passing. And futhermore this house I was suppose
to inherit will have my aunts name on the deed all of a sudden with mine
she even almost proudly told this to me one day....I told grandmother
and she seemed confused and mad at this info this is her most prize
property value and historic house estimated $450,000....Auntie already
getting 3 properties willed to her btw...something smells fishy
The deal is both of them (dad and aunt) I beleive have been working together (no real proof.)
To get me off the will. Or to skew things in there selfish favor.
They both have seen the will and I have never seen it once they
both are in the 40's and 50 years old and are opportunist. I have been playing catch up to the slickness and
slimiest that I feel is occurring right now. I went to my grandmother
and she has her insticnts that my aunt is up to some funny business. Her laywer is sending
her a copy of the will, do to my ongoing inquisitiveness she called him today and he will send it out via mail.
She said after she reviewed it she would like me to carry her to her lawyer. And told me this
info was between her and I. Don't know how far this will go.
But what should be my next step after I review the document. My Grandmother keeps telling
me "the older the will is the better" I'm just hurt that things have gotten this way
but I'm ready to fight tooth and nail to NOT let my grandmother get taking advantage
of and have her original wishes carried out in the event of her passing.
Does my aunt have the power to change my grandmothers will like I suspect she did?
Should I approach my Aunt...who told me the money would go 3 ways?....I know she is on drugs
big time this concerns me......Any advice would be appreciated.
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