What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Flroida
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Circumstances:
1. Married 20 years, two children 15 and 6 years old
2. Seperated in 2006 for 8 months (filed for divorce) because husband "wanted greener pastures" quote.
3. Husband had heart attack just before the final court hearing. Came back home on disability, pledging to make the marriage work and making his family his priority.
4.Both of us have worked fulltime in the marriage, but homemaking and child rearing were my responsiblities..
5. He was in rehab for one year while he worked on getting his associates degree and landed an instructor's position at the local college.
6.August 2008 he left the home wanting a divorce. He had met another female instructor and is still with her today.
6. He refused marriage counseling so I filed for divorce.
Question:
I want to retain the home for the children (lived here for 12 years).
Worth about 400,000 on todays market with a 66,000 mortgage. I can't really afford the mortgage payment after the divorce. He wants half of everything but we have no other assets to equal his half.
What are my chances????
Thank you
Long post
Circumstances:
1. Married 20 years, two children 15 and 6 years old
2. Seperated in 2006 for 8 months (filed for divorce) because husband "wanted greener pastures" quote.
3. Husband had heart attack just before the final court hearing. Came back home on disability, pledging to make the marriage work and making his family his priority.
4.Both of us have worked fulltime in the marriage, but homemaking and child rearing were my responsiblities..
5. He was in rehab for one year while he worked on getting his associates degree and landed an instructor's position at the local college.
6.August 2008 he left the home wanting a divorce. He had met another female instructor and is still with her today.
6. He refused marriage counseling so I filed for divorce.
Question:
I want to retain the home for the children (lived here for 12 years).
Worth about 400,000 on todays market with a 66,000 mortgage. I can't really afford the mortgage payment after the divorce. He wants half of everything but we have no other assets to equal his half.
What are my chances????
Thank you