Need advice bad!!!!

infor seeker said:

What is the name of your state (PA)

My soon to be ex-wife and I agreed to file a No Fault divorce back in May after 2 years of separation. According to PA law, after 90 days we could complete the divorce. Well during the process, she hired a lawyer and everything changed...She was granted $900.00 or so a month for child support and another $600.00 for spousal support....

The money isn't a big deal, I was already paying her $1200 a month for the prior 2 years...I did not even fight with her about the Money...

The 90 days have come and gone... we should have been divorced back in August, but she has stalled and avoided me. Her lawyer has not even heard from her...I have tried to communicate with her, but she either hangs up or ignores my emails if I make mention of the divorce.

She is attempting to collect spousal support for as long as she can and she does not want to lose the health care benefits I am sure...I have contacted lawyers and for the most part they all know what she is doing and seem to think that there is not much I can really do about it...

What can I do to get out of this marriage?

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infor seeker said:

I was ordered to pay until the divorce was final...at that point we would discuss alimony...

Thanks for taking time to reply!!!

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infor seeker said:

It was not in front of a judge, but it was the conference held by an office of the court. My wife, her lawyer, the officer and myself...

It was more of a meeting to try to agree on the numbers...

I do not have my paper work handy, but I will look at it this evening once I am home....

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infor seeker said:

If she is stalling, how can I get a divorce without her signature?

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